Sunday, March 5, 2023

MONDAY, MARCH 6, 2023 - REMEMBER THE ALAMO - AND SAN ANTONIO

 MONDAY, MARCH 6, 2023 - REMEMBER THE ALAMO - AND SAN ANTONIO




Last week was Texas Independence Day.  Today in history commemorates the Battle of the Alamo.


From TODAY IN HISTORY:


On March 6, 1836, after 13 days of intermittent fighting, the Battle of the Alamo came to a gruesome end, capping off a pivotal moment in the Texas Revolution. Mexican forces were victorious in recapturing the fort, and nearly all of the roughly 200 Texan defenders—including frontiersman Davy Crockett—died.

Thirteen days earlier, on February 23, Mexican General Antonio Lopez de Santa Anna ordered a siege of the Alamo Mission (near present-day San Antonio), which had been occupied by rebel Texas forces since December. An army of over 1,000 Mexican soldiers began descending on the makeshift fort and setting up artillery.

Over the next two weeks, the two armies traded gunfire, but there were few casualties. Despite being clearly outnumbered, Alamo co-commanders James Bowie and William Travis insisted on remaining in place. The volunteer soldiers defending the Alamo included doctors and farmers, as well as Tennessee frontiersman and Congressman Davy Crockett, who fought in the Tennessee militia.

The final attack came before dawn on March 6. Mexican troops breached the north wall and flooded into the compound, awakening many of the Texans inside. The fighting lasted 90 minutes, some of it hand-to-hand combat. Bowie and Travis were killed, as was Crockett, although reports differ as to exactly how and when. Several Texans reportedly surrendered, but Santa Anna ordered all prisoners to be executed. Only a handful survived, mostly women and children. Historians estimate several hundred Mexicans died.

After the battle, the Mexican army marched east. Meanwhile, Sam Houston, commander of the Texas forces, had been building and developing his army in Harris County. “Remember the Alamo!” became their rallying cry as an urgent reminder to avenge their earlier defeat. On April 21, Texas and Mexico fought again at the Battle of San Jacinto. Texas was victorious this time, and won independence from Mexico, bringing the Texas Revolution to an end.


The defense of the Alamo remains a symbol of resistance and revolution. The battle has been immortalized in several TV series and films, including the 1960s The Alamo, starring John Wayne as Davy Crockett. 


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San Antonio is a predominately Hispanic City - but also a very American City.  On the south of San Antonio is the San Antonio Missions National Historic Site - which is also the only  UNESCO World Heritage Site in Texas.


Originally the Alamo was a Spanish mission church (1755-1793) joining the other Missions (see below).  But by 1793, it ceased being a church.  It later played a vital role in the 1836 Battle of the Alamo. Some traces from the battle still exist but changes to the structure reflect its later role as a U.S. Army Quartermaster Depot warehouse and eventually a memorial to the Alamo Defenders.


The other mission churches are National Historic Parks and include: From north to south: Mission Concepción, Mission San José, Mission San Juan, and Mission Espada. Each mission is about 2.5 miles from the next mission. It is very easy to drive from mission to mission, and free parking is available at each mission site.


The missions frequently were havens for the indigenous people of the area - and they had land for farming as part of the missions.  The indigenous people learned Spanish and the Catholic religion at the missions.  It is worth your while to visit at least one of the missions to understand the culture.  


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San Antonio is the second largest city (by population) in Texas - with only Houston having more people.  It is also a great tourist spot.  The San Antonio Riverwalk is a great place to eat, drink, and enjoy life.  You can take excursion rides on the river (I recommend it).  


It is also the home to USAA - a large insurance company that caters to military families and has been rated nationally as one of the best places to work.  


It also is the headquarters for H-E-B groceries (the initials come from the founder’s name - Howard E. Butt).  There are also several universities in San Antonio.


I have been to San Antonio, and I highly recommend it.  The Alamo is a worthy site as are the Mission Churches, and the River Walk. (I am planning a trip to San Antonio with a friend who doesn’t drive later this spring before it gets hot!!). 


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LOVE WINS

LOVE TRANSFORMS

KAREN ANNE WHITE, ©, MARCH 6, 2023


Saturday, March 4, 2023

SUNDAY - FUNDAY - SNOW AND TEXAS INDEPENDENCE

 SUNDAY FUNDAY, MARCH 5, 2023




Are you warming up?  My friends up north have had another winter, and now it is the transition to summer.  But, it isn’t necessarily over yet.  In my last March Connecticut had a 30-inch snowfall of heavy wet snow.  


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THE FOLLOWING IS A CLASSIC SNOW STORY.

December 8

It started to snow.

The first snow of the season and the wife and I took our cocktails and sat for hours by the window watching the huge soft flakes drift down from heaven. It looked like a Grandma Moses Print. So romantic we felt like newlyweds again. I love snow!

December 9

We woke to a beautiful blanket of crystal white snow covering every inch of the landscape. What a fantastic sight! Can there be a lovelier place in the whole world? Moving here was the best idea I've ever had! Shoveled for the first time in years and felt like a boy again.I did both our driveway and the sidewalks. This afternoon the snowplow came along and covered up the sidewalks and closed in the driveway, so I got to shovel again. What a perfect life!

December 12

The sun has melted all our lovely snow. Such a disappointment! My neighbor tells me not to worry- we'll definitely have a white Christmas.No snow on Christmas would be awful!  John says we'll have so much snow by the end of winter, that I'll never want to see snow again.  I don't think that's possible. John is such a nice man, I'm glad he's our neighbor.

December 14

Snow, lovely snow! 8 inches last night. The temperature dropped to -20. The cold makes everything sparkle. The wind took my breath away, but I warmed up by shoveling the driveway and sidewalks. This is the life! The snowplow came back this afternoon and buried everything again. I didn't realize I would have to do quite this much shoveling, but I'll certainly get back in shape this way. I wish l wouldn't huff and puff so.

December 15

20 inches forecast. Sold my van and bought a 4x4 Blazer. Bought snow tires for the wife's car and 2 extra shovels. Stocked the freezer. The wife wants a wood stove in case the electricity goes out. I think that's silly. We aren't in Alaska, after all.

December 16

Ice storm this morning. Fell on my ass on the ice in the driveway putting down salt. Hurt like hell. The wife laughed for an hour, which I think was very cruel.

December 17

Still way below freezing. Roads are too icy to go anywhere. Electricity was off for 5 hours.I had to pile the blankets on to stay warm. Nothing to do but stare at the wife and try not to irritate her. Guess I should've bought a wood stove, but won't admit it to her. God, I hate it when she's right. I can't believe I'm freezing to death in my own living room.

 

December 20

Electricity's back on but had another 14 inches of the damn stuff last night. More shoveling! Took all day. The damn snowplow came by twice. Tried to find a neighbor kid to shovel, but they said they were too busy playing hockey. I think they're lying. Called the only hardware store around to see about buying a snow blower and they're out. Might have another shipment in March. I think they're lying. John says I have to shovel or the city will have it done and bill me. I think he's lying.

December 22

John was right about a white Christmas because 13 more inches of the white sh-t fell today, and it's so cold, it probably won't melt till August. Took me 45 minutes to get all dressed up to go out to shovel and then I had to go pee. By the time I got undressed, went to the bathroom, and dressed again, I was too tired to shovel. Tried to hire John who has a plow on his truck for the rest of the winter, but he says he's too busy. I think the a--hole is lying.

December 23

Only 2 inches of snow today. And it warmed up to 0. The wife wanted me to decorate the front of the house this morning. What is she, nuts?!!  Why didn't she tell me to do that a month ago? She says she did but I think she's lying.

December 24

6 inches - Snow packed so hard by snowplow, l broke the shovel. Thought I was having a heart attack. If I ever catch the son of a b-tch who drives that snow plow, I'll drag him through the snow and beat him to death with my broken shovel. I know he hides around the corner and waits for me to finish shoveling and then he comes down the street at 100 miles an hour and throws snow all over where I've just been! Tonight the wife wanted me to sing Christmas carols with her and open our presents, but I was too busy watching for the damn snowplow.

December 25

Merry freaking Christmas! 20 more inches of the damn slop tonight -Snowed in. The idea of shoveling makes my blood boil. God, I hate the snow! Then the snowplow driver came by asking for a donation and I hit him over the head with my shovel. The wife says I have a bad attitude. I think she's an idiot. If I have to watch "It's A Wonderful Life" one more time, I'm going to stuff her into the microwave.

December 26

Still snowed in. Why the hell did I ever move here? It was all HER idea. She's really getting on my nerves.

December 27

The temperature dropped to -30 and the pipes froze; a plumber came after 14 hours of waiting for him. He only charged me $1,400 to replace all my pipes. 

December 28

Warmed up to above -20. Still snowed in. My wife is driving me crazy!!!

December 29

10 more inches. John says I have to shovel the roof or it could cave in. That's the silliest thing I ever heard. How dumb does he think I am?

December 30

The roof caved in. I beat up the snow plow driver, and now he is suing me for a million dollars. The wife went home to her mother. Nine more inches are predicted.

December 31

I set fire to what's left of the house. No more shoveling.

January 8

Feel so good. I just love those little white pills they keep giving me. Why am I tied to the bed?

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I’m glad I had a snow thrower when we lived in South Dakota and Connecticut (especially in Connecticut) when the Gulf Stream brought the moisture and the Jet Stream brought the cold!!!


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March in Texas is the start of tornado season.  I was surprised to learn that Texas is the number one state for tornadoes - I figured that was Oklahoma or Kansas. Texas is huge - larger than Oklahoma, Kansas, and Nebraska added together.  Texas is larger than France.  I’m in central Texas 


It takes 11 hours and thirty minutes to drive from El Paso, Texas to Texarkana Texas; it takes 11 hours and thirty-nine minutes to drive from El Paso, Texas to Los Angeles!!


Fifteen of the smallest US states could fit within Texas simultaneously including Kentucky, Virginia, Indiana, Maine, South Carolina, West Virginia, Maryland, Vermont, New Hampshire, Massachusetts, New Jersey, Hawaii, Connecticut, Delaware, and Rhode Island.  Individually, every state except for Alaska can fit in Texas.  California, the third-largest state, can fit into Texas about 1.6 times. Rhode Island, the smallest state at only 1,212 square miles, can fit into Texas about 221 times. 


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Texas Independence Day was three days ago - March 2nd.  Texas split off from Mexico (remember the Alamo) and became independent on March 2nd, 1836.  Texas became part of the United States on December 29, 1845.  


"Six flags over Texas" is the slogan used to describe the six sovereign countries that have had control over some or all of the current territory of the U.S. state of Texas: Spain (1519–1685; 1690–1821), France (1685–1690), Mexico (1821–1836), the Republic of Texas (1836–1845), the United States (1845–1861; 1865–present), and the Confederate States (1861–1865).


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Well, a diversion to Texas today.  Texas is growing in total population faster than other states.


Have an awesome week!!


LOVE WINS

LOVE TRANSFORMS

KAREN ANNE WHITE, ©, MARCH 5, 2023


Friday, March 3, 2023

SATURDAY STORY, DANIEL JACKSON AT PURDUE (#3)

 SATURDAY STORY - DANIEL JACKSON AT PURDUE (#3)




On Saturday I write fiction.  (And, I have said before, I’m going to keep writing fiction until I get it right).  Personally, I think I’ve had some good moments but not many of those good moments, and not enough!!!


(Update.  I was listening to a Great Books Podcast about writing today.  I tend to be a start-and-see-where-it-goes, writer.  But, after listening today, I did a quick outline.  I’m excited about where this story is going - but it is going to take several weeks to build to the climax.  Now, that doesn’t necessarily mean my writing is better, but I do have a PLAN!!!)


I’m writing about Daniel Jackson, who at age 14 in 1980 made a home computer in his parent’s basement in Bloomington, Illinois.  Soon friends and neighbors wanted a personal computer and Daniel and his family made a company - DJ Computers.  (Think of Michael Dell as a similar story).  They got cheap space in State Farm Insurance in Bloomington.  The business kept growing, they built a bigger building and became a key player in the PC business.  Daniel was not involved in the day-to-day operations anymore and focused on his “hobby” new and exciting things with computers.  


He made it through high school and selected Purdue University in West Lafayette, Indiana for his college degree.  


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Daniel was by most high school standards a star.  He had been on several television shows - Good Morning America, 60 Minutes, and even the Tonight Show.  His picture had been in Time Magazine, and (of course), in PC Computing Magazine and others.


But, as a bit of a technology geek, Daniel wasn’t a social person except for his close friends (and he didn’t have many close friends.  He ran cross-country (like his parents had done in high school and college) and his close friends were also runners.  He wanted to avoid the limelight.


Purdue was the major engineering and technical university in Indiana.  Daniel was hoping he could get an education without being a celebrity.   


His counselor, Dr. Emily Frazee advised him to lay low and stay out of the limelight.  She suggested that either he go by Dan or maybe even his middle name of Will (not quite Wilfred like his dad).  He opted for “Dan” Jackson.  It was a common enough name and he could laugh it off and not lie and say something like “funny coincidence - a famous computer guy and me with the same name - ha ha”.   His parents agreed.


To help with being more normal, he grew his hair longer, grew a beard, and got contact lenses.  He thought about getting a tattoo, but he really didn’t want one (yet), and that wouldn’t necessarily give him any more anonymity. He also had his hair colored to be more of a ‘dirty blonde’ rather than his standard brown hair.  In most of his pictures, he was wearing a polo shirt (maybe even a shirt with a disk jockey on it for DJ Computers), so he opted for a different wardrobe of more drab colors, plaids, and jeans.  Anything to fit in on a campus of 40,000.  There were a few students from Bloomington High School that went to Purdue.  He’d survive, he thought.


And, without lying, if he was asked if he was from Bloomington, he could honestly say he was from Michigan as he was born there while Mom was working on her doctorate from the University of Michigan in Physics.


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Dan went for orientation days towards the end of July.  There were tours of the campus, meeting with an advisor to select classes, and some ice-breaking activities.  


He met up with some pretty similar kids.  As a premier engineering school, many of the other students were gifted in math and science.  Dan thought it would be kind of a ‘nerd school’, and that was alright with him.  In his orientation group, he met Kelley Dickenson, a nursing student (or, really a ‘pre-nursing’ student), Matt Porell, a computer science major, and Shirley Hess, a bioengineering major.  They exchanged e-mail addresses and became online friends for the rest of the summer.


As part of the orientation, they got a coupon for a free ice cream cone at Pappy's Sweet Shop in Purdue Memorial Union.  Over dinner, Kelley, Matt, Shirley, and Dan talked about their backgrounds.  Dan tried to hide his background.  He talked about running cross-country.  Matt had played some volleyball, and Kelley and Shirley had been band kids in high school. They ended dinner with an ice cream cone.  It was time to leave high school behind, find new friends, and start a new life.  


Matt Porell laughed and said, “Hey, you’re not the Daniel Jackson of DJ Computer fame are you?” 


Dan laughed it off, “Yes, I’m a billionaire and I just bought Purdue University.  Just a common name.  I did get one of those DJ Computers for my room, but I’m just Dan Brown from Michigan.”


It didn’t totally close the door, but he was trying to divert the attention of being a celebrity.

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Incoming freshman students had to take a math placement test in math.  For Dan as a potential physics (or computer engineering) major, if he got a high enough score, he could take the Introduction to College Physics with Calculus; and if not, he would take the Introduction to College Physics with College Algebra course.  He scored high enough to take calculus-based physics.  


The advisor commented that Dan had gotten one of the highest scores on the math placement test.  Dan smiled and said, “Wow, that’s great”.  He didn’t mention that his mother was a physics professor at the University of Illinois or that he loved his math courses.  He tested into Calculus II and selected the College Physics with Calculus course.  He also had to take Freshman Composition which he dreaded, Micro Economics, and Introduction to Business.  He figured he would do okay in the physics and calculus classes but would have to work on the three non-science courses.  The Introduction to Business course might be easy for somebody who had started his own business.  His uncle Steve had suggested the microeconomics class with supply and demand, supply chain, pricing models, and raising money.  


The freshman orientation went well and other than the one question, nobody else questioned Dan Jackson as being Daniel Jackson of personal computer fame. 


He came home with at least three new friends, class assignments, textbooks, and a feeling of success.  Yes, he was, at least on paper, a millionaire, but he was going to be, “just Dan Jackson, college freshman”, and that was going to be okay with him!!


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Dan had been assigned to a room on the fifth floor of Hawkins Hall.  It was a huge dormitory with mostly freshmen men.  He had a roommate, Karl Sieverding from Muncie, Indiana.  


The Department of Student Housing had sent out a letter to all incoming students with rules and regulations, and also had included his roommate’s name and phone number.  On the day that Dan got the letter, he called Karl and then planned out what each was bringing.  


Dan offered to bring a television and a popcorn maker.  Karl would bring a mini-refrigerator.  They seemed to be compatible.  Karl was going to be an electronic-engineer major and they found out they would be in the same calculus class.  


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Move-in day was Thursday, August 25, 1988.  There was a crew at the dormitory to help the new students move in.  Even though it was the end of faculty orientation week at the University of Illinois, Beth Jackson took the day off to help move her own child into Hawkins Hall.  Will Jackson also took the day off.  They managed to pack pretty much everything into their Astro Van.  They had taken the back seat out and one of the middle seats.  Dan had four cardboard boxes of clothes.  There were a few summer things and mostly fall clothes.  Dan would be home for Thanksgiving and they could hold off on the winter coats until then.  


There was his DJ Computer in the original box and monitor, a smaller boombox, and miscellaneous other things.  Dad kidded and said that when he moved into college thirty years before, he had two suitcases and a typewriter.  


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Karl and Dan had opted for a loft bunk bed arrangement to use less floor space.  The residence hall staff rented loft beds for $50 for the year and had them all ready set up in the room.  Dan had taken the lower bunk and Karl the upper bunk.  Beth and Will met Karl’s parents, Bruce and Connie from Muncie.  They had agreed to go to lunch together after getting all the stuff into the boys’ room.  Bruce Sieverding was the head of utilities for the city of Muncie, and Connie was a high school math teacher.  They laughed that the two boys had very similar parents and plans.  (Of course, Beth and Will didn’t mention that Dan was really Daniel Jackson, founder of DJ Computers).


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Friday, August 26th, was a day to unpack and to find your classrooms until the evening when there was a freshman-only picnic and party at the Purdue Student Union. 


Dan didn’t date much in high school but went with his roommate Karl to the party.  He found Shirley Hess and her roommate, Patty Collins.  He was a little surprised and embarrassed when Shirley ran up and hugged him.  


Shirley said, “Dan, I’m glad to see you”.  She gushed and Dad blushed.


Shirley introduced Dan to Patty, and Dan introduced his roommate Karl to Shirley and Patty.  Out of a freshman class of about 15,000 to meet somebody he knew was a surprise.  Shirley and Patty were at First Street Towers, just off State Street, the main drag of campus.  Dan was realizing that Hawkins Hall, the dorm he and Karl were in, was not very close to the other dorms.  After the party (which ended at the early hour of 10:00 p.m.), Dan and Karl walked Shirley and Patty back to First Street Towers.  Shirley gave Dan a quick peck on the cheek and a hug. 


Shirley said, “I hope to see you soon!”.


Dan agreed, but inwardly was wondering if Shirley wanted to be more than friends?  Was he going to have a girlfriend from his first day at college?  He did know that Purdue was about 60% male and 40% female.  Maybe Shirley was just trying to work against the odds?


*****


With maybe his first day ever to be totally on his own, Dan did a ten-mile run on Saturday.  It was good being out and running.  He had a walkman cassette player and was listening to movie theme songs - including Rocky (Eye of the Tiger, Going to Fly Now), Star Wars, Shaft, and Raiders of the Lost Ark.  


Each room had a phone and the students could call for free on campus most students had phone credit cards to call home.  Dan had decided not to call home until Monday evening, August 29th, after the first day of class.  But, he wanted so much to call - just with that new feeling in his stomach - I’m the founder of a major computer company, and I’m at a campus on my own.


Karl asked Dan if he wanted to go to church on Sunday.  Karl passed on the invitation and instead went running again.  By Sunday afternoon, the campus was busy with sophomore, junior, and senior students moving in.  


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Finally, it was Monday morning - class day!!!  Karl and Dan were up early, showered, had a quick breakfast at Hawkins Hall, and headed across campus to the Math Building for Calculus class.  Because most of the engineering and science classes and labs needed math, the calculus classes were at 8:00 or 9:00.  They were surprised that the class was in an auditorium with about 75 seats.  Dan wanted to sit towards the front to see and hear better, but when Dr. Garrett arrived with two graduate assistants, they arranged the students alphabetically by last name. So, Dan Jackson ended up in the middle row, and Karl Sieverding was three rows behind him.


And once the students were arranged, Dr. Garrett started out at 500 miles per hour.  He covered all of college algebra, and about half of Calculus I class in the remaining time.  He assigned chapters 1 and 2 in the textbook - and dismissed the class.


“Whew - the first of many, many classes”, thought Dan. Karl had another class right away, but Dan had a free hour, so went to the library and started on the calculus assignment.  


That afternoon, Dan had the lecture for Calculus-Based Physics.  And, the class started with pretty much the same concepts that were covered in the calculus class that morning and in the assignment, he worked on.  Maybe this was going to work out.


*****

On Saturday, September 3rd, 1988, Dan, his roommate, Karl, and about 55,000 friends were at Ross-Ade Stadium to watch the Purdue Boilermakers play Bowling Green State University.  It was the Labor Day weekend, but Dan’s parents had suggested that Dan stay at Purdue until at least the middle of October.  Like most of the Purdue fans, he had on a black and gold t-shirt, or to be precise, a Boilermaker Gold and Smokestack Black t-shirt.  (Karl had insisted that Dan wear a Purdue shirt to the game).


As they got closer to the stadium, they pass through a parking lot with cars with trunks open, shade awnings over portable grills, the smell of bratwurst roasting, and everybody with a can (or bottle) of beer in their hand.  Karl said the fans were “tailgating”.  There were radios and boomboxes blaring throughout the parking lot. 


There were some people with Greek letters on their shirts.  Karl said they were fraternity groups.  There were both current college students and older people - may be alumni Dan thought in those groups.


It seemed like the line getting into the student section was half a mile long.  The ticket takers for the student section had to verify that the student ticket holders were really students.  Purdue had problems with students buying tickets for $10 and selling their tickets for more.  It wasn’t a problem today as the Boilermakers were expected to roll over the Bowling Green Falcons.  But for Big Ten games (especially Ohio State and Michigan) students could pocket $100 for scalping tickets.  The ticket takers were also on the lookout for alcohol being smuggled into the game.  But the vast amount of alcohol being smuggled into the game was in the stomach of students from pre-game parties and tailgating.


But, the line moved quickly, and soon Dan, Karl, and the students were in the student section.  It was quite a sight.  Dan, who wasn’t much of a football fan, since the cross-country team was generally out running during the high school football games, was amazed at the rowdiness of the student crowd.  


The term boilermaker had two meanings in this game.  Purdue as the State of Indiana’s premier engineering school had graduates who made the huge locomotive boilers on steam trains of the early railroad era - thus the “boiler makers”.  But in colloquial terms, a boilermaker drink was a glass of beer with a shot of whiskey dropped in - a potent alcoholic concoction. 


Dan didn’t drink alcohol.  His parents didn’t have alcohol in the house.  His grandmother had been an active member of the WCTU - Women’s Christian Temperance Union that had advocated for prohibition in the early 1900s.  But, a lot of students did drink alcohol and some drank frequently and to excess - and they were the rowdiest of the group.


Six guys were in the front row of the student section without shirts.  Each one seemed to be selected because of very hairy chests.  And of these students, each one had a huge letter that spelled out P-U-R-D-U-E.   Today, the weather was hot, but wait until the November games.  These guys would be freezing. 


The Purdue football team came out of the field.  The crowd stood and cheered.  The Purdue band played Hail Purdue and some of the crowd sang along.  They had tried to teach the song in the freshman orientation - but Dan wasn’t much of a singer and didn’t quite catch on.  


The Bowling Green team came on the field, and the student section booed.  Dan wasn’t quite sure why the crowd booed, but they did.


The teams warmed up and the band played and the crowd cheered.  Cheerleaders in skimpy outfits were in front of the crowd trying to get them to cheer.  Dan thought this was real pageantry.


When the teams ran off to their locker rooms for some last-minute plans, the Purdue band took the field.  Purdue had the largest bass drum in the world - so they claimed - although the University of Texas claimed their bass drum was the biggest.  Karl leaned over and told Dan the drum was called “Big Bertha”.


About six people down the row from Dan and Karl, a student puked - probably too much alcohol and some friends escorted him out of the row and probably out of the stadium. 


They had the coin toss, Purdue received the ball first, and the game was on.  There weren’t many fans for Bowling Green, and the ones that were there were about 1/100th as loud as the Purdue crowd.  The fans screamed for the good plays and booed for the bad plays.  Purdue did get a couple of first downs and then had to punt the ball. Bowling Green had a first down, and then a Purdue player intercepted a pass.  Purdue got close, but didn’t score a touchdown and kicked a field goal.  


Dan hadn’t been much of a football fan, but being a college student at a Big-Ten university, you almost had to become one.  He asked Karl about some penalties, why the clock kept running at times, and why it stopped at times.  He was making an effort.  


By the second quarter with Purdue leading 3 to 0, Dan started to know when to cheer and when not to cheer.  At half-time, the score was Purdue 10 and Bowling Green 3.  


Dan was enthralled by the half-time show by the Purdue Band.  They high-stepped their way around the field making shapes and words.  It seemed like Big Bertha was the main focus and the drummers moving it rotated it as well as hit it loud enough to sound ‘boom’. 


There were huge scoreboards on both ends of the field and they flashed various messages from time to time.  When Purdue got close to the goal and the crowd was cheering, the message was LOUDER - urging the Purdue fans to yell and encourage their team to score.  Once when Bowling Green had the ball, the scoreboard flashed a picture of a picket fence with the letters DE in front.  Dan asked Karl what that meant - and Karl said “Defense”. 


It was quite a theatrical show with about 57,000 participants (plus the teams, scoreboard, referees, and cheerleaders).  


By the middle of the fourth quarter with Purdue leading Bowling Green State University by a score of 31 to 13, some of the students started to leave.  Dan asked Karl why the students were leaving.  He said that Bowling Green didn’t have a chance of winning and the students were going someplace to party more.  Dan thought that was funny - the students were there to see their team win, why didn’t they stay and watch the Boilermakers win?  


The final score was Purdue 38 and Bowling Green 13 on a late touchdown in the last minute. 


As Dan and Karl left he saw Shirley and some of the students from his classes, including his physics lab partner, Linda Watson.  He said ‘hi’ to some of the students he recognized.  Karl warned Dan to be careful of pickpockets in the crowd - they would bump into people and get billfolds out of their pockets.  Dan realized that although he was a millionaire in terms of starting his own computer company, he was pretty naive to lots of things.


As they walked back across campus, they stopped at  Pappy's Sweet Shop in the student union. Shirley was there with her roommate and the four of them grabbed a table.  Shirley’s roommate was Kendra, a black student from Chicago who seemed real nice.  She was a pre-med freshman student.


*****

Back in Hawkins Hall, Dan got back into his homework. He had finished one week at college.  He wanted to make good grades - it would be expected of him.  If he didn’t he could picture the media - “Wunderkind Computer Developer, Daniel Jackson Flunks out of College”. 


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End of part III


I have many exciting things for Daniel Jackson in the next few episodes.  I’m excited about this story.  (You don’t have to be …)


LOVE WINS

LOVE TRANSFORMS

KAREN ANNE WHITE, ©, MARCH 4, 2023


FRIDAY, MARCH 3RD, 2023 - SPIRITUAL THOUGHTS

 FRIDAY, MARCH 3, 2023 SPIRITUALITY




Mahatma Gandhi “"I like your Christ, but not your Christianity."

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I listened to a podcast a couple of weeks ago (I should go back and listen to similar podcasts).  The speaker (a Christian) asked “When are you going to leave Christianity?”


That was an interesting question.  When are you going to leave Christianity?

*****

Well, I don’t think I’m leaving Christianity.  You know I like the hymns, the seats, the stained glass windows, the decorations, (and depending on your orientation - even the incense).  


TIME OUT.  You talked of the “trappings” of Christianity - the buildings, the churches, the music - the traditions of “Christianity” - or as some have said “Churchianity”. 


To me - real Christianity is Jesus Christ - with or without a church.  And, that Jesus Christ really didn’t quite establish a church.  Now, that is my belief - but I understand that not all people are Christians - and that’s okay.  I’ve also learned that diversity is a good thing.  (That is, not all people have a background like mine!!!)


Jesus did say this: Matthew 16:13-20

“Simon Peter replied, “You are the Christ, the Son of the living God.” And Jesus answered him, “Blessed are you, Simon Bar-Jonah! For flesh and blood has not revealed this to you, but my Father who is in heaven. And I tell you, you are Peter, and on this rock, I will build my church, and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it. I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven, and whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.” Then he strictly charged the disciples to tell no one that he was the Christ.”

—Matthew 16:13–20


Okay, but that was in the first century.  


Now, right after that, Peter went to Rome, started a “Go Fund Me” project, and built St. Peter’s Basilica.  He got a group together to write a bunch of rules - “Don’t do this, do that”.  Kneel, have bells, have incense, have special robes/garments/vestments, and develop a systematic approach to Jesus.  And, of course, only use Latin for worship!!!  (Of course, not).  


This Peter was kind of a wild and crazy guy.  He got out of the boat to walk on the water.  He wanted to put up three tents when it seemed like Moses, Elijah, and Jesus got together and they all shone like the sun.  He said “Heaven forbid” when Jesus said he was going to the cross and die.  


But, this Jesus - just kind of an itinerant preacher roamed from town to town telling stories.  Sometimes the stories hurt.  There was a man left for dead by robbers and Jesus said “Be a good neighbor, take care of him” - but the (gasp) person who did take care of the man was an outsider, kind of a non-traditional Jew (that is a Samaritan).  


He (Jesus) was asked to be part of a mob to kill a woman who (gasp) slept with a man other than her husband.  He didn’t even really solve that, just wrote in the dirt after saying the first person to inflict a blow on her had to be free from sin. (I guess he meant that all people have sinned).


He (Jesus) told a story of a son who took his inheritance and spent it on prostitutes - and how the dad didn’t even scold the son when he returned home penniless. 


He said “Turn the other cheek” when somebody struck you.  He said “Go an extra mile” when forced to carry a Roman soldier’s equipment.  


He got down on his hands and knees and washed some dirty feet.  


And, he said “Love one another”, “Love your enemies”, and “Love your neighbor”. “Feed the hungry”.  “Cloth the naked”, “Visit those in jail and those that are sick”.  


He rode into the capital city on a donkey - not a fancy steed.  


It seems like this Jesus was really a “counterculture” and yet modern American Christianity twists his words and deeds to exclude the other counterculture folks out there.  


What about the homeless?  What about the mentally ill?  What about those who just don’t fit the mold?  What about the “bad” people of the day, the tax collectors?  What about the smelly shepherds and the fishermen?  


He seemed to violate all the conventions of the day.  He wasn’t born in a nice, clean, sanitary hospital room.  He didn’t die a natural death in a hospice.  He was wrongly convicted and got spat upon and nailed to a wooden beam so that people could see what happened if you didn’t follow the rules.


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In modern words, this Jesus seemed to be radical.  He confronted leaders in both the government and the established religious factions.  


Yup - I don’t want to be like this Jesus - He is too far out to be believed.  


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Or … maybe he is too far out to be ignored.


Mahatma Gandhi “"I like your Christ, but not your Christianity."


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I have no idea if Gandhi is in heaven, or Adolf Hitler - not my job to judge and say “yea” or “nay”.  


Back to the original question.  When are you going to leave Christianity?


I’ve had many friends who have turned their back on Christianity.  I think they have turned their back on “Churchianity”.  


What about you?


LOVE WINS

LOVE TRANSFORMS

KAREN ANNE WHITE, (C), MARCH 3, 2023



Wednesday, March 1, 2023

THURSDAY, MARCH 2ND, 2023 - MORE SELF-CARE

 THURSDAY, MARCH 2ND, 2023 - MORE SELF-CARE




I started on Monday writing about being overwhelmed last week.  On Saturday after a granny basketball game and a social hour with friends, I spent most of the afternoon napping.  Now, I generally take a 15 to 20-minute nap most days.  (I say I have “lounger disease” - when I sit in my reclining, swiveling chair, I fall asleep!!).  


I allowed self-care to take a back seat last week (and again this week).  (About five minutes ago as I was writing I was asked to help out at the senior facility tonight - and, of course, I said “Yes”) 


One basic factor is my difficulty saying “NO”.  But, that really isn’t the total problem - I need to take better care of myself, I need to keep my boundaries, and I need to do a better job of time management.  One day last week I felt like I was on top of things, so I did a jigsaw puzzle.  (I have loved to do jigsaw puzzles since my childhood).  It took about three hours to do the 300-piece puzzle.  


In some respects, it was self-care - doing something I like.  But it was poor time management as I had to rush my blogs for a couple of days last week.  Yes, I know I could skip a day of writing my blog - but that is also part of me and my self-care. I generally schedule my blogs at about 2:00 a.m. - but one day I didn’t finish it until 9:15 a.m.   So, was doing a puzzle good?  Sure!!  Was doing a puzzle taking away from other activities?  Yes.


I have a goal of at least 3 miles walking (down from four miles last year).  There were two days last week when I didn’t even get to 3 miles.  (3 miles for me is about an hour).  Walking is also a priority for me - sitting on a chair doing a puzzle wasn’t good for my physical health.  (And, then when I wanted a snack, I jumped up and got one!!!).


So self-care. 


A theory of self-care is based on the Self-Care Wheel - (see illustration).  It has six areas: physical, psychological, emotional, spiritual, personal, and professional.  It aims to keep things in balance.  


On Monday, I looked largely at the physical aspect - food, exercise, body care, etc.  Tuesday I looked at affirmations - keeping my brain (psychological focus) strong.

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The Self-Care Wheel: Wellness Worksheets, Activities & PDF (positivepsychology.com)


LET’S LOOK AT EMOTIONAL SELF-CARE TODAY.


Emotional wellness can be described as understanding and being aware and comfortable with your feelings, and being able to express emotions constructively.

Things you can do to nurture yourself:

Perform affirmation - having a bad day?  Tell yourself (outloud) that you are better than that. 

Aside - I write from a Judeo-Christian perspective.  I am a child of the KING.  “There is now no condemnation to those in Christ Jesus (Romans 8:1); we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him (Romans 8:28), No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us.(Romans 8:37). I am loved by God, God lives within me.  The very God who created over 8 trillion galaxies - infinite - knows little old me!!!

Cry - I can be emotional - both high and low.  My students recognized me by my “WOOO” acclamations as I entered the classroom.  I also have cried for my children and grandchildren.  Crying can be cathartic.  “Why is crying so cathartic?  Researchers have established that crying releases oxytocin and endogenous opioids, also known as endorphins. These feel-good chemicals help ease both physical and emotional pain.

Social justice engagement - YES.  I have embraced a “LOVE WINS, LOVE TRANSFORMS” platform.  I HAVE TO LOVE.  It is part of me now. (That doesn’t mean that I slip into some minor judgment occasionally. - I might be a lover, but I’m sure I am NOT perfect!!!)

Laugh - remember the old Reader’s Digest topic - “Laughter is the best medicine”.  I do laugh frequently - at myself - at just some little thing that tickles me.  I might be listening to some of my favorite music and conducting the orchestra - and swinging my arms - calling in the horns.  Or I’m playing the tympani (which I have never really done) for the final measures of a piece - BOOM, BOOM, BOOM as I whack my drumstick on the timpani heads.  

I laugh when I’m listening to an audiobook and something sweet happens!!!

Find a hobby - I might have too many hobbies (including writing!!!)

Flirt (if appropriate) - (but, of course!!!)

Buy yourself a present - I don’t spend much money on myself.  I had happy tears three weeks ago when I bought a new skirt (it is so nice!!!)

Practice forgiveness - forgive others and you will be forgiven. I can't hold a grudge.  It is stupid and holds me back.  When I see somebody say “I’ll never forgive <that person>” I cringe a little.  It’s like there is only one bridge across a deep chasm - an old rickety rope bridge.  I must get across, but I’m standing there stubbornly and saying “I can’t cross that bridge”. 

YES, I have to work at self-care.  I have to work on saying “no” to others when it negatively impacts me!!

LOVE DOES WINS - be patient
LOVE DOES TRANSFORM - anticipate the butterfly coming out of the cocoon
KAREN ANNE WHITE, ©, MARCH 2, 2023