Friday, March 10, 2023

SATURDAY STORY - DANIEL JACKSON AT PURDUE (#4)

 SATURDAY STORY - DAN JACKSON #4




On Saturdays, I write fiction.  I am going to keep trying.  This story (about Daniel Jackson and the DJ Computer) is looking like a longer story.  I have a dynamic (???) ending in sight but need to build towards it.  Today will be more on being a nerd computer expert at college and learning many lessons other than academics (although academics will be part of the mix).  The middle chapters set the stage for Daniel’s character, personality, and more. 


Review.  In 1980 at age 14, Daniel Jackson created a home personal computer in his parent’s basement in Bloomington, Illinois.  He soon made others for relatives, neighbors, and friends.  With his parents, Dan set up a family business to make computers.  The growth and demand for home computers went crazy in the 1980s 


At age 18, (1984), Dan went off to Purdue University to be a computer engineering, and computer science major.


***** New Chapter here****

Dr. Gary Bunce, the physics professor handed back the first exam papers on October 12th.  He folded them carefully so the score did not show.  He (or more likely his teaching assistant), had arranged the papers in alphabetic order and the class was arranged by alphabetic order so he could just walk down the rows and hand out the papers personally to each student.  Some professors knew their students by name, and Dr. Bunce had been working on that.  As they went through activities on the blackboard, he would go down a row - so each student knew they would be called on in order.  Some students were shyer and almost panicked when called on.  His method made sure each student would be called on (no hiding) but they would be anticipating when he would reach them.


As he went down Dan’s row, he called out each name as he handed out the exam.  


“Dan Jackson”, he called as he handed out the test back to Dan.  Quickly, Dan opened it to see a note - “Great Job, see me after class”.  The score was 97 on the test.  After handing back the exams, Dr. Bunce had a Harvard Presentations slide with the scores and distributions.  Dan’s 97 was high in the class, with the next high score at 89.  The scores went down to 36.  The class average was 59, with a standard deviation of 16.  Dan had an idea of what statistics meant from his senior math class in high school.


Dan’s physics lab partner was Linda Watson, who was in the last row.  Linda wished she were closer to the front to see and hear better.  Dan had already figured out his best academic seat was in the second row on the left, about three in from the left edge.  He could see and hear well.  The professor wasn’t in the way of the blackboard and he wasn’t so conspicuous as sitting in the middle of the front row.


After class, there were a few other students in front of Dan, and Dr. Bunce took others so that Dan would be the last.  Dan noticed that Linda Watson was waiting for him by the door.  He guessed her first question would be “what did you get?”.  

Finally, it was just Dr. Bunce and Dan at the front of the classroom.  


Dr. Bunce had a huge grin and asked, “How is Beth?” 


Dan had to think for a second.  “How is Beth?”  Did he mean “How is your mother?”


He stammered for a second and asked, “Do you mean my mother, Beth?”


Dr. Bunce laughed.  “Yes, I meant your mother Beth”.


Dan stammered again and said, “She’s good.  She teaches Physics at the University of Illinois.  Do you know her?”


Dr. Bunce was enjoying this interaction.  “Yes, we were classmates in the Ph.D. program at the University of Michigan.  We’ve met up several times over the years at academic conferences.  I also know your Dad too.”


Dan blushed and then smiled.  “That’s great.” (But his inflection didn’t accent the word ‘great’.  He wasn’t quite sure how to act when a professor talks about his mother).


But, Dr. Bunce laughed again and asked, “How is DJ Computers doing with their founder at Purdue”.


Dan really reddened at that.  He was trying to keep a low profile about being the founder and developer of the Daniel Jackson - DJ Computer - company.  


Dr. Bunce grinned and said, “I haven’t shared your secret, Dan.  I saw your name on my roster but didn’t really add up all the connections until you scored the top grade on the test.  A mother Beth in Bloomington Illinois, a physics professor at the University of Illinois, a graduate student Beth Jackson at the University of Michigan 18 years ago who was pregnant with their first child, and now a Daniel Jackson from Bloomington Illinois in my Physics I class.”


Dr. Gary Bunce smiled again and asked, “How did I do?”


Dan stammered again, “You nailed it, sir.  Yes, I’m that Daniel Jackson”.


Gary Bunce smiled again.  “It is a rare experience to have the child of a friend in my class, and to have a student who created a worldwide business in my class.”


He paused and continued, “Dan, I am not going to embarrass you.  But, I want you to know that your professor is a friend, a fan, and a supporter.  I’m happy to have you as a student”.


Dan answered, “Thank you, Sir”.  


Dr. Bunce, seeing Linda Watson by the door.  “Now get along Mr. Jackson, I think somebody is waiting for you”.


***

Linda Watson was waiting for Dan and her question was not the one he anticipated five minutes ago, but she asked “What was that all about?”.


Dan blushed again, “Dr. Bunce knows my mother.  They were students together at Michigan”.


Linda asked, “Is your mother a physic person?”


Dan said, “Yes. She teaches physics in Illinois”.


Linda’s eyes widened, “You're the son of a physics teacher.  WOW!  Did you get the highest score on the test?”


Now Dan was relaxed and answered, “Yes, I did.”


Linda exclaimed, “Wow, I got the best lab partner in the class!.  Let’s go to lunch together”.


*****

Dan liked having a casual girlfriend.  Linda Watson was smart, good-looking (Dan didn’t really know what ‘good-looking’ meant), and friendly.  She wasn’t beautiful like the models in the Playboy Magazines his high school friend Max had.  He was just pretty naive about women and social issues.  


Linda also lived in Hawkins Hall.  They crossed campus on a clear and still warm October day heading to the cafeteria in Laurel Hall.  There wasn’t a cafeteria in Hawkins Hall, and Laurel Hall was the closest one.  


Linda was from Huntington Indiana about two hours east of Purdue’s campus.  She had an older brother and an older sister, and a younger brother.  She was a chemical engineering major, but that could change after her first college chemistry class.  Her father was an engineer for Huntington Tool and Die company, and her mother was an architect.


They both checked in as they entered the cafeteria.  It was a one-price cafeteria - so if you got a lot or got a little, it was all included in your food costs.  She went to the salad area and got a taco salad for lunch, plus some tater tots, and unsweet iced tea.  Dan was a runner but had to watch what he ate.  He went through the regular line and got a BLT sandwich and green beans, and a Dr. Pepper to drink.  They sat at a window overlooking the Memorial Mall lawn.  When it got warm in the spring, the Memorial Mall lawn would be covered with blankets with students getting a start on their summer tan.  But, today the benches had students reading their textbooks, a group playing frisbee, and a few couples holding hands.  Dan wasn’t quite sure about holding hands yet.

When they were sitting down, Linda started to ask about Dan’s grade on the test and about Dr. Bunce knowing Dan’s mother.  Dan said they had met at the University of Michigan when Dr. Bunce was getting his doctorate.  (He didn’t mention that his mother had a doctorate in physics).  Dan blushed a little when he said, “Dr. Bunce kind of knew me too, as Mom was pregnant with me at the time.”.


Linda laughed.  It sure was easy to make Dan blush.  What a sweet, innocent boy.


Dan decided he should change the subject.  “What did you get on the test?”


Linda proudly answered.  “Well if it hadn’t been for Mr. Physics Superstar, I would have been first.  I had an 89 score.  What did you miss, Mr. Almost Perfect Physics Superstar?”


Dan got in his backpack and pulled out his exam paper, Linda got her paper out too.  Dan had made a dumb mathematical mistake and transposed the numerator on a question.  Linda also had most of the concepts right, but a couple of little mistakes knocked her down. 


Linda asked Dan if he was going to the Homecoming parade tomorrow, and to the football game.  Dan hadn’t thought about the parade but thought he’d go with his roommate Karl to the game.  


Linda interjected, “I have student tickets too, can I join you and Karl at the game?”


Dan instantly replied “Sure thing”. 


They returned their trays and got a soft ice cream cone on the way out.  They walked the three blocks to Hawkins talking about physics, life, music, and more.  At the elevators, Dan was going to the fourth floor and Linda to the eighth floor.  They happened to be the only two on the elevator, and as the door opened on the fourth floor, Linda wrapped her arms around Dan and kissed him on the lips.  


Dan didn’t quite know what to do, but shoved his hand in the door to keep it open, joined in the kiss a little, and stammered, “See you tomorrow”.  He got off the elevator and watched as the door closed on Linda.  His heart was fluttering.  


*****

Dan and Karl went to the parade.  It started at Engineering Fountain, down Centennial Mall Drive to West State Street to North University Drive, and ended at the football stadium.  It seemed like every student organization had a hay wagon with some decorations on it.


The sidewalks were packed with students, alumni, staff, friends, and bystanders.  There were high school bands from a hundred miles, an alumni band (not marching, but on hay bales on a flatbed, clowns, cheerleaders, unicycles, people walking on stilts, politicians and university officials in convertibles, boy scout and girl scout troops, and more.  Dan hadn’t seen many parades, other than the televised Rose Parade and Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade.


Dan had to chuckle as the Computer Engineering club had a float with a huge cardboard computer with the DJ Computer logo on it.    


Some groups threw out candy to the crowd, and the kids scrambled to pick up the candy.  It was like Halloween, the Fourth of July, and Christmas all put together.


Two-and-one-half hours later the last float went by, followed by horses and riders, and even cows.  After all, Purdue was the agricultural university in Indiana too. Even Dan, who ran cross-country, finally had to sit on the curb for a few minutes after standing in one place for such a long time. 


Early on, Linda Watson found them as well as Shirley Hess, Matt Porell, and Kelley Dickenson from orientation.  Other classmates filled in around them.  Some had black stove-pipe hats (like steam boiler hats), and almost everybody was in Purdue black and gold.


The parade route ended at the football stadium, and the floats were parked there for all to see.  Dan wished he had brought his Nikon camera, but he hadn’t expected such an elaborate display.  


The parking lots were also full of tailgaters, the aroma of bratwurst lofting up mixed with all the other smells.  The cattleman’s club had a huge grill and was cooking and selling burgers and glasses of soda and beer as a fundraiser.  The group stopped to get lunch there before heading into the stadium.  


The homecoming game started at 3:00 - to let the parade revelers and tailgators have time between the parade and the game.  


The stadium was packed with standing room only.  Like before, ushers checked the students for campus IDs and alcoholic beverages.  


The opponent that day was the University of Iowa - another Big Ten member.  Generally, Iowa and Purdue were similar.  Today, Iowa came into the game at 4 wins and 2 losses, and Purdue was at 5 wins and 2 losses.  


Dan, Karl, and the other fans got into the game early.  Now in the fourth home game of the season, the crowd knew the cheers and chants.  Dan thought it was a little barbaric - like one of the cheers, “Blood, blood, blood makes the grass grow”, with the implication that they wanted to spill the blood of the Iowa Hawkeyes.  


The game worked its magic into the loyal fans, giving them euphoria with good Purdue plays and scores, and heartbreak when Iowa had good plays and scores.  But, the large homecoming crowd helped the Boilermakers prevail in the end, 31 to 24 on a touchdown in the last two minutes of the game.  


There was a dance that night in the student union with a DJ (of course, Dan Jackson had to smile when he thought of a disk jockey - DJ as compared to DJ Computers).  As the group walked back to their respective dorms, Kelley suggested they all go together.  Dan was thinking he should study but kept quiet as the group agreed.  


Linda Watson sidled up to Dan and said, “I’m looking forward to slow dancing with you.”  


Dan blushed (as always) and said to Linda, “I don’t know how to dance.”


With a seductive look in her eyes, Linda purred, “I’ll show you how”.


*****

Dan asked Karl Sieverding, his roommate, “What do you wear to a dance, particularly to a homecoming dance?”


Karl looked up from his General Chemistry I textbook and answered, “Anything you want - jeans are okay, slacks, a nice t-shirt or light sweatshirt.  You can work up a sweat when you dance, so don’t dress too warmly.  Haven’t you ever been to a dance before?”


Dan answered honestly, “No, I haven’t ever been to a dance.  No, I take that back.  My cousin Pam got married and had a dance, so I was in my nice wedding clothes.  I don't think that counts.” 


Karl laughed at his roommate.  “Well, it will be interesting for you tonight!”


Linda met Dan and Karl in the Hawkins Hall lobby and they walked the quarter-mile to the homecoming dance in the Purdue Student Union.  Somehow, Dan wasn’t quite sure, within a couple of blocks from the dorm, Linda’s hand was in his.  


They were meeting friends at the dance.  Kelley and Shirley were there with their roommates, and Matt and Norris were there.  The ballroom was crowded.  There weren’t enough chairs for them all to sit down, but the idea was that once the music started the dance floor would be full.  


The lights dimmed a little, a disco ball rotated on the ceiling, and a DJ started with an old tune by Jerry Lee Lewis, “Goodness, Gracious, Great Balls of Fire”.  And almost as quickly as the music started, Dan had a tug on his arm.  Linda was raring to go.  Dan blushed and Linda pulled him out on the dance floor.  She dropped his hand and she started to gyrate and dance.  Dan, looking like a ventriloquist dummy, stood there - gapping at all the others on the floor.  He saw a guy from his economics class close by and tried to mimic his actions.  Linda grinned as she saw Dan making an attempt to dance. 


It wasn’t long until Dan was a little comfortable - maybe about the third song when the DJ played Diana Ross and Lionel Richie in Endless Love.  Several of the couples left the floor and Dan would have left too except Linda grabbed him.  She whispered in his ear, “You’re doing great - now it is time to slow dance with me.  I’ll lead, you just be natural.”


She threw her arm around Dan’s waist and slowly moved to the music, left, back, right, forward.  Not too fast, It seemed for a while that Dan had two left feet.  He did step on Linda’s toes twice before he kind of figured it out.  But, it took three slow dances until he stopped looking down at his feet and was able to relax a little.

***

By 10:00 the dance was slowly winding down.  Some were going to other private homecoming parties (with alcohol), some were tired of dancing, and most had a long day with the parade, game, and dance.


By 10:15, Dan said to Linda, “I’m tired, can we go?”.  Kelley and her friends had left about 9:30.  Karl, Shirley, and others were still there - but yawning seemed to be their favorite action.  


But, just then, the DJ played another slow dance, Faithfully, by Journey. Before he could react, Linda pulled Dan onto the floor and they danced this last slow dance.  Then, with a kiss, Linda and Dan walked towards the exit.


*****


The night had cooled off as the group made their way to their respective dorms.  Linda, Karl, and Dan walked to Hawkins Hall.  There were some others that Dan recognized as being at the dance a short distance ahead of us, and as the group turned the corner of State and Sheetz, Dan noticed a group behind us - heading towards Hawkins Hall. 


Linda stopped and said, “I have a pebble in my shoe”.  She leaned on a lamp pole, slid off her shoe, and shook it out.  Now Dan and Linda were behind their group, and when they got to the door to Hawkins Hall, Linda went to the side and pulled Dan along.  She locked her lips on Dan’s. Dan pulled her into his arms, and they made out, just outside the entrance to their dorm.  For a guy with little romantic experience, Dan seemed to catch on quickly.  Linda, though, seemed like she was familiar with romance.  She rubbed Dan’s back as they kissed, and then a hand slipped to his groin.  The endorphins and hormones were pumping their magic into Dan’s brain and he lost control of his hands which slid over Linda’s breasts.  


It seemed like an hour, maybe two hours to Dan, but after five minutes, out of breath, Linda broke off.  


“WOW” was all she could say.

Dan didn’t say anything, but if he had, “WOW” would also be his term.


Linda and Dan locked eyes.  Dan was a little taller and Linda had to look up at him.  


She said, “That was amazing.  Let’s go to our rooms and have sweet dreams.”


Dan, still a bit dumbfounded, nodded.  His brain seemed to have lost the ability to generate speech for a few minutes.  


There were others on the elevator.  Dan got off on the fourth floor, and Linda stayed in the elevator to go up to the eighth floor. She squeezed Dan’s hand as he left the elevator.


*****

Dan’s brain immediately restarted as he got off the elevator. The floor smelled of burning leaves.  When Dan was little, he helped his grandfather rake leaves and his grandfather piled the leaves by the street and burned them.  This aroma was similar, but not the same.  What was it? Was there a fire on the floor?  Should he pull the fire alarm?  


Getting to his room, Karl was just out of the shower and dressed for bed.


Dan asked, “What was the aroma as I got off the elevator?  It smelled like burnt leaves?”


Karl laughed, “Dan, you have led a sheltered life.  That was the aroma of marijuana being smoked.  It’s illegal to smoke it, but my guess is that the floor RAs are letting it go tonight.”


Dan got ready for bed, but just peeled off his jeans and Purdue t-shirt and put on an old running t-shirt, and collapsed in bed.  But, his mind was too active to fall asleep quickly.  Parade, game, dance, marijuana - no he wasn’t at home anymore!!


*****


After homecoming, things settled down again for Dan.  At mid-term his grades were all As except for English (where Dan hoped he had at least a C.  He got a routine, up, shower, breakfast, calculus, stop in the library and read the Wall Street Journal (to get the stock price for DJ Computers), and look at the various PC Computer magazines. He would study economics, business, and physics in the library.  


For English he would write his papers and essays the first day they were assigned, take them to the English Help Desk in the library, and work with a tutor on his writing  He generally revised his papers four times: first rough draft, second draft from working with the tutor, third almost finished draft, and finally polishing the paper in WordPerfect on his computer.  


He did see Linda most days and they generally had dinner together with the same friends in the cafeteria.  It was in the cafeteria after dinner that Dan learned to drink coffee.  It seemed silly to just hang around the cafeteria after dinner, but if he had a cup of coffee in his hands, it was like a kid’s security blanket.  He had an excuse to hang out with his friends.  


He had weekly phone calls to his parents on Saturday mornings.  Some Saturdays Uncle Steve would join Will and Beth for breakfast and Dan’s phone call to talk about where DJ Computers was going.  Other than Dr. Bunce, Dan hadn’t told anybody he was the founder of DJ Computers.  


*****

Dan dated Linda.  Yes, she was his study partner in the Physics lab, and yes, they had the best scores in the Physics classes.  And, yes, he was ga-ga for her.


One night, the week before Thanksgiving vacation, Dan and Linda were making out in a quiet corner of the student union when Linda slipped her hand into Dan’s pants and caused Dan to reach a climax.  Their time for making out inconspicuously was limited.  Dan had mentioned he was dating Linda in one of his weekly phone calls.  His parents treated it like a little thing, but Dan was pretty excited about it


*****

On Friday, November 16, 1984, Will Jackson pulled up in front of Hawkins Hall, loaded a huge bag of dirty clothes, and his computer, and headed back to Bloomington with Daniel Jackson from DJ Computers.  Thanksgiving at home was going to be a treat for Daniel Jackson.


***********

End of week #4 of Daniel Jackson, teenage computer company founder.  We’ve learned more about Dan at college - his classes, his learning, his fitting in, his romance, and his habits.  


Next week, we’ll look at the second semester at Purdue - with more changes.- (no, he doesn’t get married, no, Linda isn’t pregnant, yes, Dan’s future becomes more focused). 


LOVE WINS

LOVE TRANSFORMS

(Will Dan learn to love in an agape fashion?)

KAREN ANNE WHITE, ©, MARCH 11TH, 2023




Thursday, March 9, 2023

FRIDAY, MARCH 10, 2023 - CHURCHES EAT PEOPLE

 FRIDAY, MARCH 10, 2023 - CHURCHES “EAT” PEOPLE.




On Fridays, I write about spiritual things as I see them. (The opinions are my own)


I’m not quite sure about my title - “Churches EAT people”, but I will keep it.


I’m in the middle of a church change.  Not that I don’t like the old church, not that I don’t accept most of the beliefs - BUT.


Early on in my adult life, I was married, and both of us had pretty much perfect church attendance growing up.  We had moved to Keokuk, Iowa (where I was teaching high school math).  We went to a particular Protestant Church and it seems to fit.  I think if my “spiritual hearing” was turned on, I would have heard something like “Fresh Blood” from others in the congregation!!  (Not really blood - but a new younger couple - let’s get them involved.  We were in that church five years before moving to Minnesota and college teaching.)


In those five years, I was on the Board of Elders, I taught adult Sunday School, and I sang in the choir.  My wife was the assistant leader of the women’s group.  I went to area meetings (synod meetings).  We were active.


But, someplace along the line there, I heard the message that “Churches eat people”.  I think it happens in one of two ways (and I’d add more from my research).


Method 1:  Churches eat people by burning them out.  


If you’ve been involved in a church you may recognize the “church lady” who does everything.  She’s on this board and that board.  She helped with communion, teaches Sunday School, she bakes cookies for any and all events.  She is almost “married” to the church.  


And, eventually, she gets worn out.  In the church I’m leaving, JK was that person.  She was officially the church office administrator - and had outlasted several pastors.  She knew the history, and she knew who she could ask for various jobs (like asking me to help with the annual church carnival).  I know she didn’t want to be in charge of everything - but nobody stepped up to take on leadership positions.  


It is not limited to women (although I think I’ve seen more women in those kinds of “run the church in the background” positions).  HS was an usher/greeter/reader/ in my childhood church. He was everywhere and knew everybody.  HS had a rarely seen wife, but if the doors of the church were open, HS would be there - not necessarily to pray or worship - but to serve, even to rearrange chairs, I imagine he would even sweep the floors if needed.


These people get burned out.  Could you help with this?  Could you do that?  And at some point (see method 2 below), they get abused. 


Garrison Keilor in his old radio show talked of the Catholic church in Lake Wobegon, Minnesota - it was named “Our Lady of Perpetual Responsibility”.  Not Our Lady of Love, or even the traditional Our Lady of Perpetual Help - but perpetual responsibility.  Keep working, keep working, and keep working!!!


It might have started as a LOVE WINS - I want to serve God by helping out at my church and loving the people.  God’s love is infinite but in so many churches these helpers are not loved but expected to do the heavy lifting of keeping everything going - of bearing the responsibility.


*****

Method 2 - Gossip kills them


In that first church after we were married, I didn’t realize it, but there were cliques and gossip.  I don’t know why gossip flourishes in churches, but it does.  


My wife as assistant women’s group leader was the recipient of some of the gossip. “Why do we have such a young lady in such an important position?  I think Martha would be a better leader than she is”.  


And, you hear the gossip - “Did you know that <dirt>”.  


Gossip can be so cruel and stupid.  “Did you see what Lucy was wearing today?  I wouldn’t wear those clothes to a dogfight”.  “Did you see how Bob looked at Shirley today?  I wonder if they are sleeping together?”.  “Did you hear that Cindy is leaving Dan?”.  


I learned that if you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all.  


In my first teaching assignment, I learned NOT to go into the teacher's lounge - the gossip was flying around.  (And, at that point in time, the cigarette smoke was also flying around!!!).  


We tend to hate Christians in other denominations - and Christians who leave OUR fellowship. (“What, weren’t we good enough for you?”) And that can lead to gossip, slander, and animosity. 


*****

So what does LOVE MEAN in a church?  Loving everybody, not judging anybody, and accepting everybody.  What does LOVE MEAN outside of a church?   Loving everybody, not judging anybody, and accepting everybody. 


James 2 talks about welcoming a rich man into your church./fellowship.  Place him in a good position.  But if a poor man in rags comes to your service tell him to sit on the floor in the back. 


James 2:2-4 says, “Suppose a man comes into your meeting wearing a gold ring and fine clothes, and a poor man in filthy old clothes also comes in. If you show special attention to the man wearing fine clothes and say, “Here’s a good seat for you,” but say to the poor man, “You stand there” or “Sit on the floor by my feet,” have you not discriminated among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts?”


(Aside, at the church I’m leaving, I was told my clothes were not appropriate.  I was practicing my second amendment rights to “bare arms”!!!)


I can understand Gandhi's quote “I love your Christ, but not your Christians”.  

In my current status, I have some people look at me and say “Yuck - a transgender woman - yuck.  I can’t associate with her.”  And, the interesting part is - I’m doing this intentionally to get people to think about what is LOVE.  


To me, the Gospel of Christ is unconditional love, non-violence, and forgiveness.


Yes, LOVE the weirdos of the world; and Yes, LOVE the straight people of the world; and yes, LOVE all people - Do you remember the kids' church song: “red, yellow, black and white - they are precious in His sight.  Jesus loves the little children of the world”. (But, when those little children grow up, they aren’t always loved by His followers!!!)


LOVE WINS

LOVE TRANSFORMS

KAREN ANNE WHITE, ©, MARCH 10, 2023he 


Wednesday, March 8, 2023

THURSDAY, MARCH 9, 2023, I MESSED UP AGAIN!!!

 THURSDAY, MARCH 9, 2023 - RELATIONSHIPS




I write from my experiences and my thoughts.  


I learn from my experiences - and (too many times), I have to repeat a lesson until I get it right!!!


*****

Have you ever had a “pity party”?  The “Oh Woe is Me” type event.  There are only three people invited - Me, Myself, and I.  And, we sit around and commiserate about how bad things are!!!


First - to wake my brain up, two things I need to remember.  (1) “In Everything Give Thanks for this is the Will of God”. (Ephesians 5:18), and (2) LOVE WINS.  (Corollary to LOVE WINS - it isn’t “KAREN WINS” - but LOVE WINS).


*****

Love, patience, forgiveness - yup - I have to keep learning those things.  I have this thing called “Ego” that keeps thinking it is the most important thing in the universe (NOT SO!!!)


We (Bluebonnet Philharmonic Symphony Orchestra) had two concerts last weekend.  I (me, myself, and I) had worked hard to publicize the concerts.  I had four groups that I pushed (antagonized?) to attend.  My work teammates, my bridge group, my Bible Study group, and my granny basketball group.  I had been mentioning these concerts for over a month, I distributed flyers, and I reminded them through my weekly “Bridge Brat Bulletin” and emails.


I (super capital “I”) wanted a huge crowd.  I wanted to look out and see an audience of friends that I had invited.


It was Karen’s work, not God’s work.  There was only one of my work teammates that attended, there were only three people from my bridge group (out of about 20); there was one (out of nine) from my Bible Study group; there was one (out of 25) of my church group and nobody from my granny basketball team.  


“I” (that super capital EGO) wanted more friends, more people.  The audience was very good for both concerts - but I wanted MORE (MORE, MORE, MORE!!!). “I”  (that EGO) was hurt - all MY work, all MY pushing, all MY effort.


“I” failed (am my EGO was bruised.  


*****

So, the three of us at the “Pity Party” survived.  We slept on it (all in the same bed).  And with the new day, We, Ourself, and I relearned the lesson.  Yes, “In everything give thanks” (even when I think I am so “big time”); and “LOVE WINS”.


*****

The “ego trip” of having a huge audience at the concert overpowered me.  As John, the Baptist said about Jesus - “He must increase and I must decrease”.  This isn’t Karen White’s world - God (however you conceive Him/Her/It/The Force/Oh/) is still in charge. 


There are times when I want to be in charge (what a disaster that would be).  There are times I want to be a “puppet on a string” - let God manipulate me - but He/She gave me (and all of us) “Free Will”.


Karen, you are such a weird “work in progress” - and actually all of us are “works in progress”.  


I was reminded of Dick Van Dyke’s song in Bye, Bye, Birdie - Put on a Happy Face:


“Gray skies are gonna clear up,

Put on a happy face;
Brush off the clouds and cheer up,
Put on a happy face.
Take off the gloomy mask of tragedy,
It's not your style
You'll look so good that you'll be glad
Ya' decide to smile!

Pick out a pleasant outlook,
Stick out that noble chin;
Wipe off that "full of doubt" look,
Slap on a happy grin!
And spread sunshine all over the place,
Just put on a happy face!

And if you're feeling cross and bitterish
Don't sit and whine
Think of banana split and licorice
And you'll feel fine

I knew a girl so glooming
She'd never laugh or sing
She wouldn't listen to me
Now she's a mean old thing

So spread sunshine all over the place

Just put on a happy face

So, put on a happy face


*****

Yup Karen - you are NOT in control!!  (Thank God!!!)


So what did you learn, Karen? I learned (again and again)


LOVE WINS

LOVE TRANSFORMS (and sometimes not quite quick enough for me <grin>)

IN EVERYTHING GIVE THANKS

FORGIVE ALWAYS

AND LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY


Karen Anne White, © March 9, 2023


Tuesday, March 7, 2023

WEDNESDAY, MARCH 8, 2023 - AUSTIN TEXAS

 WEDNESDAY, MARCH 8TH, 2023- AUSTIN TEXAS




Last week was Texas Independence Day, Monday was Alamo Day (and I highlighted San Antonio), and yesterday I looked at Houston.  Today, I’m looking at Austin Texas.


Austin is the eleventh most significant city in the United States.  Number 10 nationally is San Jose, California, and Austin is closing in on that.  Three cities in Texas make the top ten (Houston at #4, San Antonio at #7, and Dallas at #9 … then Austin as #11).


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Austin is the capital city of Texas.  I don’t live in Austin, but in a suburban community - Georgetown TX. 


So, what do I like about Austin?  That is a little hard since I don’t live in Austin.  


There is (almost) no snow or ice.  I lived all my life before moving to Texas in northern states - Iowa, Wisconsin, Minnesota, South Dakota, Nebraska, Oregon, and Connecticut. I have done my share of shoveling!!!


The summers are hot - ugh - but the winters are mild - hurray!!!  You can kid me by asking “How many days are over 100 in the summer”, and I’ll ask “How cold was it” or “How much snow did you get?” Two weeks ago, I turned off my furnace.  I’ll switch it over to air conditioning a few times this winter.


There are SO MANY things going on - almost none of which I attend (SxSW music festival, UT athletics, Austin Symphony, kayaking on Lake Austin, movies, parties). I “need” to keep busy, or I might get depressed.  My activities are generally in my north suburb of Georgetown.


It is NOT a flat city.  Dallas is mostly flat, and Houston is flat. Geographically Austin is on the edge of the Texas Hill Country.  If you go west of Austin - there will be hills and interesting geography.  If you go east of Austin, you get flat land.  While I’m not an expert on the “Hill Country”, it has rolling hills (not mountains) and interesting features.


It isn’t perfect.  The airport is at least 45 minutes away.  Downtown can be 30 miles or 3 hours.  My doctor is in downtown Austin.  


My daughter and granddaughters are here - although I haven’t seen them for 4.5 years.  But, someday.


I get time to reflect, meditate, write, and exercise.


In Georgetown, there are very nice hiking trails.  I like that!!!


I play in an orchestra, I play in a German polka band (that is also a big band), I play granny basketball, and I play social bridge.  I work part-time and enjoy and am learning from that.  


After working three years at the University of Texas, I follow UT sports (aka “Longhorns”).  


If I was recommending visiting Austin, I’d suggest Pennybacker bridge, the UT campus, Texas State Capitol, Lake Austin, Mount Bonnell, and a billion restaurants.  TexMex is awesome to eat.  I used to eat more barbecue, but I have cut back on that.


From my apartment, I can walk to the grocery store, large box store (Target), dentist, post office, senior center, and San Gabriel River trails.  


There is an awesome library.  The downtown has a very traditional square and has interesting things (including Market Days the second Saturday of each month).  


Happiness is an attitude.  “Bloom where you are planted”.  I’m happy.  I like being here.  


LOVE WINS

LOVE TRANSFORMS

KAREN ANNE WHITE, ©, MARCH 8, 2023


Monday, March 6, 2023

TUESDAY, MARCH 7, 2023 - HOUSTON

 TUESDAY, MARCH 7, 2023 - HOUSTON 




Last week was Texas Independence Day, and yesterday we looked at the Alamo and San Antonio.  Today I’d like to look at Houston, Texas.


Houston is the fourth largest city in the United States (after New York, Los Angeles, and Chicago), and the largest city in Texas (about 50% larger than the second-largest city - San Antonio).

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SPORTS

Let’s hit sports first.


Houston has a major league (and very successful) baseball team - the Houston Astros.  Houston has a National Football League team - the Houston Texas.  Houston has a National Football League team - the Houston Rockets.


If college sports interest you, Houston has Rice University (“the owls”), and the University of Houston (“the cougars”).  

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DIVERSITY

Houston is more diverse than New York or Los Angeles.  


More than 145 different languages are spoken in Houston

Houston has the third largest number of languages spoken in the U.S. behind New York and LA. While Spanish and English are prevalent in the area, you will hear people speaking Vietnamese, Chinese, Hindu, German, and even Tagalog.

The first traditional Hindu Mandir in the nation was built in Houston

The BAPS Shri Swaminarayan Mandir was assembled in Houston like a puzzle. Consisting of 33,000 pieces of Italian marble and Turkish limestone, the temple was carved by hand and took 28 months to build. Not only is it the first temple built in the nation but also the largest of its kind in Texas.

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SPACE

Houston has one of the largest land areas in the United States - 665 Square Miles. (By comparison, New York City is only 302 square miles - in five boroughs).

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FOOD

Residents in Houston eat out more times a week than in any other city in America

It might be because the average meal costs less than the national average, or it can be because Houston has some of the most delicious foods and restaurants. But Houstonians seem to eat out more than your typical American. Either way, eat on!

Houston has one of the best culinary scenes in the country

With more than 10,000 restaurants, which represent more than 70 countries and American regions

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MEDICAL

It is home to the largest medical center in the world

The Texas Medical Center is located in Houston and contains 54 medicine-related institutions. The medical center exceeds 1,000 acres and gets an average of 7.2 million visits per year. That’s more than the populations of Los Angeles, Houston, and San Francisco combined. Also, did you know that more heart surgeries are performed in the Texas Medical Center than anywhere else in the world?
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MISCELLANEOUS

Houston has an underground pedestrian tunnel system

The tunnel is 20 feet below the ground and runs for seven miles, linking 95 city blocks. The tunnel originally connected two downtown movie theaters but now connects much more, including major city buildings, restaurants, and retails stores – almost like a mini-mall!

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The Houston Livestock Show and Rodeo is one of the biggest rodeos in the world

This month-long rodeo attracts over 2.5 million attendees each year. But do you blame them? With foods like deep-fried Nutella and fried Twinkies, who can resist? The live performances, games, and carnival sure do help, too.

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Houston is home to Texas's largest shopping mall

The Houston Galleria, or just The Galleria, opened in 1970 and is the largest mall in Texas, with over 375 stores filling the four floors. It’s the 9th largest in the U.S. If you’re looking for something, the Houston Galleria will surely have it.

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It is also home to the world’s first domed stadium

The Astrodome opened in 1965 and served as a second home to the Houston Astros. It’s the world’s first multi-purpose domed sports stadium.

SPACE CITY

Houston currently has one official nickname, "Space City", signifying the city's global importance to space exploration and historical role as a prominent center of activity by the National Aeronautics and Space Administration (NASA). Cities adopt official nicknames such as this one to establish a civic identity, promote civic pride, and build community unity. Houston has had other nicknames in the past which have faded in common usage, going as far back as the 1870s.


NASA's center in Houston has its origins in the Space Task Group which directed its first manned spaceflight program, Project Mercury. In 1961, it grew into a bigger organization as the Manned Spacecraft Center, and in 1962 moved into a newly built campus on land donated by Rice University.  It was renamed the Lyndon B. Johnson Space Center (JSC) in honor of Texas U.S. Senator, Vice President, and President Lyndon B. Johnson in 1973, the year Johnson died. As Senate Majority Leader, Johnson played a decisive role in the passage of the legislation which created NASA in 1958. JSC contains the Christopher C. Kraft Jr. Mission Control Center, which coordinates and monitors all human spaceflight for the United States, and directed all Space Shuttle missions and activities aboard the International Space Station The visitor center of JSC is Space Center Houston.

Some of the first words transmitted by Neil Armstrong from the moon, "Houston, Tranquility Base here. The Eagle has landed", are written in 15 languages on bronze plaques placed along the main entrance of Tranquility Park in downtown Houston. A replica of one of the footprints left on the moon by Neil Armstrong is also on display inside the park. (And, of course, “Houston, we have a problem”)


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So, the fourth largest American City, the largest Texas City - Houston.  


I spent two weeks in Houston two years ago.  The zoo is excellent, and the medical center is huge and exceptional.  (And, the traffic is horrendous!!!)


LOVE WINS

LOVE TRANSFORMS

KAREN ANNE WHITE, © MARCH 7, 2023


Sunday, March 5, 2023

MONDAY, MARCH 6, 2023 - REMEMBER THE ALAMO - AND SAN ANTONIO

 MONDAY, MARCH 6, 2023 - REMEMBER THE ALAMO - AND SAN ANTONIO




Last week was Texas Independence Day.  Today in history commemorates the Battle of the Alamo.


From TODAY IN HISTORY:


On March 6, 1836, after 13 days of intermittent fighting, the Battle of the Alamo came to a gruesome end, capping off a pivotal moment in the Texas Revolution. Mexican forces were victorious in recapturing the fort, and nearly all of the roughly 200 Texan defenders—including frontiersman Davy Crockett—died.

Thirteen days earlier, on February 23, Mexican General Antonio Lopez de Santa Anna ordered a siege of the Alamo Mission (near present-day San Antonio), which had been occupied by rebel Texas forces since December. An army of over 1,000 Mexican soldiers began descending on the makeshift fort and setting up artillery.

Over the next two weeks, the two armies traded gunfire, but there were few casualties. Despite being clearly outnumbered, Alamo co-commanders James Bowie and William Travis insisted on remaining in place. The volunteer soldiers defending the Alamo included doctors and farmers, as well as Tennessee frontiersman and Congressman Davy Crockett, who fought in the Tennessee militia.

The final attack came before dawn on March 6. Mexican troops breached the north wall and flooded into the compound, awakening many of the Texans inside. The fighting lasted 90 minutes, some of it hand-to-hand combat. Bowie and Travis were killed, as was Crockett, although reports differ as to exactly how and when. Several Texans reportedly surrendered, but Santa Anna ordered all prisoners to be executed. Only a handful survived, mostly women and children. Historians estimate several hundred Mexicans died.

After the battle, the Mexican army marched east. Meanwhile, Sam Houston, commander of the Texas forces, had been building and developing his army in Harris County. “Remember the Alamo!” became their rallying cry as an urgent reminder to avenge their earlier defeat. On April 21, Texas and Mexico fought again at the Battle of San Jacinto. Texas was victorious this time, and won independence from Mexico, bringing the Texas Revolution to an end.


The defense of the Alamo remains a symbol of resistance and revolution. The battle has been immortalized in several TV series and films, including the 1960s The Alamo, starring John Wayne as Davy Crockett. 


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San Antonio is a predominately Hispanic City - but also a very American City.  On the south of San Antonio is the San Antonio Missions National Historic Site - which is also the only  UNESCO World Heritage Site in Texas.


Originally the Alamo was a Spanish mission church (1755-1793) joining the other Missions (see below).  But by 1793, it ceased being a church.  It later played a vital role in the 1836 Battle of the Alamo. Some traces from the battle still exist but changes to the structure reflect its later role as a U.S. Army Quartermaster Depot warehouse and eventually a memorial to the Alamo Defenders.


The other mission churches are National Historic Parks and include: From north to south: Mission Concepción, Mission San José, Mission San Juan, and Mission Espada. Each mission is about 2.5 miles from the next mission. It is very easy to drive from mission to mission, and free parking is available at each mission site.


The missions frequently were havens for the indigenous people of the area - and they had land for farming as part of the missions.  The indigenous people learned Spanish and the Catholic religion at the missions.  It is worth your while to visit at least one of the missions to understand the culture.  


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San Antonio is the second largest city (by population) in Texas - with only Houston having more people.  It is also a great tourist spot.  The San Antonio Riverwalk is a great place to eat, drink, and enjoy life.  You can take excursion rides on the river (I recommend it).  


It is also the home to USAA - a large insurance company that caters to military families and has been rated nationally as one of the best places to work.  


It also is the headquarters for H-E-B groceries (the initials come from the founder’s name - Howard E. Butt).  There are also several universities in San Antonio.


I have been to San Antonio, and I highly recommend it.  The Alamo is a worthy site as are the Mission Churches, and the River Walk. (I am planning a trip to San Antonio with a friend who doesn’t drive later this spring before it gets hot!!). 


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LOVE WINS

LOVE TRANSFORMS

KAREN ANNE WHITE, ©, MARCH 6, 2023