Tuesday, May 28, 2024

WEDNESDAY, MAY 29, 2034

 WEDNESDAY, MAY 29, 2024



I’m on vacation with my fabulous sister and brilliant brother-in-law in Surprise, Arizona.  


My sister is generally three years older than I am (but she is four years old from her birthday to mine in August.  


Growing up, we lived different lives - I was the kid brother, and she was the big sister.  Other than three years in the same building in Cleveland Elementary School in Cedar Rapids, Iowa. we didn’t go to the same schools or do the same things. 


As an adult, I have loved her so much more.  Thank you, Beth!!!


LOVE WINS


LOVE TRANSFORMS


Karen Anne White, Mayu 29, 2024


Monday, May 27, 2024

TUESDAY, MAY 28, 2024 - ON THE ROAD AGAIN

 


TUESDAY, MAY 28. .2024






I'm on vacation.  Today, Humphrey Peak in Arizona, then Sedona and to the Phoenix area.  


My sister is in Surprise, Arizona - a Sun City community.


I’m not sure if I can also get to “Tuba City” for a picture with the highway sign!!!


I also should make it to Winslow, Arizona (made famous by the Eagles - Well, I'm a-standin' on a corner in Winslow, Arizona - Such a fine sight to see It's a girl, my Lord, in a flatbed Ford - Slowin' down to take a look at me)


LOVE WINS

LOVE TRANSFORMS

Karen Anne White, May 28, 2024

Sunday, May 26, 2024

MONDAY, MAY 27, 2024

 MONDAY, MAY 27, 2024 - MEMORIAL DAY




I AM ON A TRIP.


Yesterday, I left Georgetown, Texas, drove to Palo Duro State Park (Canyon), and then stopped inn Lubbock for the night.


Palo Duro is billed as the second-longest canyon in the United States.  I have been through the Columbia River Gorge (not long, but very scenic), and I will be visiting the Grand Canyon next week.  I am still determining how this canyon will compare.


Today, I’m heading to Wheeler Peak, the highest point in New Mexico.


Some years ago, we lived near Mount Hood (the high point of Oregon) and visited Mount Hood but did not go to the summit.


SO:

  1. Mount Hood in Oregon

  2. Black Elk Peak in South Dakota (and hiked it)

  3. Hawkeye Point in Iowa (in a farmer’s field)

  4. Mount Frissell in Connecticut - the high point, but the actual peak of Mount Frissell is just across the border in Massachusetts (and hiked it)

  5. Mount Greylock - the highest point in Massachusetts (didn’t hike it)

  6. Jerimoth Hill - the high point in Rhode Island (just off the road - (no big deal)

  7. High Point, New Jersey (just off of Interstate 84 - we crossed by this on our trips west and east

  8. Charles Mound, Illinois - on private property - but open on the first weekend of June, July, and August

  9. Mount Magazine in Arkansas - a pretty nice park - excellent roads, and a short hike

  10. Black Mesa, Oklahoma - I camped at Black Mesa State Park - a “dark” park and the night sky and stars were fantastic)

  11. Mount Sunflower in Kansas- maybe my easiest high point - just a few inches taller than the rest of the prairie state

  12. Panarama Point, Nebraska - also on private property - in the high plains of western Nebraska.  (Buffalo do roam here!!!)

  13. Guadalupe Peak, Texas - I walked on the trail for a while, but didn’t go to the top.



On this trip, I hope to get to

  1. Wheeler Peak in New Mexico

  2. Humphrey Peak in Arizona

  3. Mount Elbert in Colorado (second high-point in the lower 48 - Mount Whitney in California is higher, and Denali in Alaska is the highest in the United States and North America


Saturday, May 25, 2024

SUNDAY FUNDAY, MAY 26, 2024

 SUNDAY, MAY 26

MEMORIAL DAY






MEMORIAL DAY - AN INTRODUCTION


Memorial Day is a federal holiday in the United States for honoring and mourning the U.S. military personnel who died while serving in the United States Armed Forces. From 1868 to 1970, it was observed on May 30. Since 1971, it is observed on the last Monday of May.


Originally called Decoration Day, it was formalized by a "Memorial Day Order" issued by Grand Army of the Republic Commander-in-Chief John A. Logan in 1868.


The modern proclamation calls on Americans "to observe Memorial Day by praying, according to their individual religious faith, for permanent peace."


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The original name was “Decoration Day” - a day to decorate the graves of soldiers (especially in early years, Civil War soldiers).  


Karen adds -  My mother was a bit “old school” and called the day “Decoration Day” most of the time.


I knew a retired military chaplin -  who objected to moving it from May 30 to the last Monday in May.  He thought people would have a three day weekend and would forget about the soldiers who gave their lives.  (And, he was at least partially right.  Americans do like three day weekends - Saturday, Sunday, and Monday).  Memorial Day is also considered as the unofficial start of summer - going to the unofficial end of summer on Labor Day weekend.


Boy Scouts (and others) frequently put flags out in cemeteries on soldiers graves. 


ARLINGTON NATIONAL CEMETERY 



Robert E. Lee (and family) owned the estate across the Potomac River from Washington DC.  His wife’s family was descented from Martha Washington and built the estate across from the (new) Capitol City in 1802.


The earliest burials were Civil War soldiers who were too poor to have their bodies embalmed and sent home, so became the burial plot for these civil war dead.  The majority of Civil War deaths were from illness - for every three that died in battle - five died due to illness.  


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BEING A HONOR GUARD AT THE TOMB OF THE UNKNOWN SOLDIER


Currently, the Tomb Guards work on a three Relief (team) rotation - 24 hours on, 24 hours off, 24 hours on, 24 hours off, 24 hours on, 96 hours off. However, over the years it has been different.

The time off isn't exactly free time. It takes the average Sentinel 8 hours to prep their uniform for the next work day. Additionally, they have Physical Training, Tomb Guard training, and haircuts to complete before the next work day.


How many steps does the Sentinel take during their 'walk' by the Tomb of the Unknowns and why?  Twenty-one steps. It alludes to the twenty-one gun salute, which is the highest honor given any military or foreign dignitary.


The average tour at the Tomb is about a 18 months. However, there is NO set time for service there. Sentinels live either in a barracks on Ft. Myer (the Army post located adjacent to the cemetery) or off base if they like. They do have a living quarters under the steps of the amphitheater where they stay during their 24 hour shifts. If they are of legal age, they may drink except while on duty.


Qualifications to be an Honor Guard 

  • Be a member of the 3rd U.S. Infantry Regiment and become ceremonially qualified

  • Be between 5' 10" and 6' 4" for men, or 5' 8" and 6' 2" for women, with a proportionate build and weight

  • Have an unblemished military record and be in excellent physical condition

  • Pass an interview and a two-week trial

  • Memorize seven pages of Arlington National Cemetery history during the trial

  • Have strong military bearing, discipline, and stamina

  • Be able to perform seven different types of ceremonies, honors, and walks flawlessly

  • Have extensive knowledge of the Tomb, Arlington National Cemetery, the United States Army, and their unit

The Tomb is guarded, and has been guarded, every minute of every day since 1937.


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JOKES - 

My father was a jokester.  He quipped that when he visited the tomb of the unknown soldier,the soldier’s mother was there putting flowers on his grave. 


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MAYU JOKES:

What do you call a bee born in May?  May bee

Which crime-fighter likes May the most?  Robin

If April showers bring May flowers, what do May flowers bring?  Pilgrims.  

What season is it when you are on a trampoline in May?  Spring-time.

Can February March?  No, but April May! 

Why are oak trees so forgiving?  Every May they “turn over a new leaf”.

How can you tell that Jedi’s like the month of May the most? Because they always say, “May the Fourth be with you.”

Who conducts the spring orchestra?  May-stro.

What is May’s favorite genre of music?  Heavy Petal!

What May flowers grow on faces?   Tulips (Two-lips).

Which cute mouse loves the spring?   Maysy

What did Spring say when it was in trouble?  May Day!!

Which state loves spring the most?  May-ne

What is May’s favorite generation?   Baby bloomers.

Who’s the most important person in a Spring wedding?  The MAYtron of honor.

What goes up when May rain comes down?  An umbrella

What is May’s favorite beverage to drink when it is thirsty?  Spring water.

What is May’s favorite movie?  Singing in the Rain.


What is the shortest month of year?  May.

How can you tell when May is happy?  When there is a spring in its step.

What does May put on its pancakes?  May-ple syrup.

How does May keep its garden look so beautiful?   With a lot of thyme. 

What is May’s favorite sauce?  May-onnaise.

What month has the highest rank in the army?  May-jor May! 

Why is May always a chaotic month?  Because it brings with it plenty of May-hem.

What do you call a snowman in May?  A puddle.

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LOVE WINS, 

LOVE TRANSFORMS


Karen Anne White, May 26, 2024


Friday, May 24, 2024

FRIDAY, MAY 24, 2024 - LET LOVE BEGIN WITH ME.

 WEEKEND OF MAY 24-26, THEY WILL KNOW WE ARE CHRISTIANS BY OUR LOVE




We are one in the Spirit; we are one in the Lord.
We are one in the Spirit; we are one in the Lord.
And we pray that our unity will one day be restored.
And they'll know we are Christians by our love.
Yeah, they'll know we are Christians by our love

We will work with each other; we will work side by side

We will work with each other; we will work side by side

And we'll guard each man's dignity and save each man's pride

And they'll know we are Christians by our love, by our love

Yeah, they'll know we are Christians by our love.


We will walk with each other; we will walk hand in hand

We will walk with each other; we will walk hand in hand

And together, we’ll spread the news that God is in this land

And they'll know we are Christians by our love, by our love

Yeah, they'll know we are Christians by our love.


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Ah yes, “they’ll” (I’ll take that as anybody we meet) and each other. I picture walking with somebody hand in hand; I picture working with somebody side by side with dignity and pride.


I view this as Agape Love—God's perfect, infinite love for us. Then, we have that perfect love for others.  


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But the reality is very far from the song. We don’t walk with each other, we don’t work with each other, and we don’t love each other.  


At a previous church, there is a place in the worship service for the “passing of the peace.”  That generally says “Peace be with you” to everyone around you.  As in more formal worship services, we all have our “favorite” places to sit.  Mine was the front row. A lady was generally next to me (with a bit of space - using pews - not chairs).  When it was time to pass the peace, we stood up - and immediately, she turned her back to me.  Out of four years of sitting in that row, she never greeted me or said “Peace be with you” to me, but she did to the people around her.  


Now I know that I’m in the wrong here.   I haven’t walked a mile in this lady’s shoes.  I barely know her name and haven’t attempted to be a friend.  


Matthew 7:3-5 says:

“Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is always a plank in your eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.


I have a multitude of “planks” in my eye, yet I see this speck in this lady’s eye.  We don’t even try to love one another; we can’t say, “We are Christians by our Love” - because we don’t love others.  We don’t even pretend to love each other.  


There is a hospitality aspect of “They’ll know we are Christians by our Love.”  Have I invited the person to coffee or to visit them?  A friend recently talked about growing faith in small groups.  Yes, we can go to a worship service once a week (checkmark - one more Sunday service - I’m working on my “don’t miss a Sunday service merit badge.)”  But do we grow?  Do we walk with each other and work with each other?  Do we try to be friends (let alone a person who loves them?)   


What does it REALLY MEAN to be a loving Christian - to ALL people? 


Karen answers, “It means more than what I am claiming to be .”


I can talk about love winning - but I need to act about love winning!!!



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Another Christian song is “There There Be Peace on Earth.”


Let there be peace on earth.

And let it begin with me.

Let There Be Peace on Earth

The peace that was meant to be


But the end of that song is:

Let there be peace on earth.

And let it begin with me.


Let there be love on earth - and I KNOW IT HAS TO BEGIN WITH MY!!!!


Love does win - but we need to commit to it

Love does transform us - but we need to commit to it


Karen Anne White, May 24-25, 2024


Tuesday, May 21, 2024

WEDNESDAY, MAY 23, 2024 - MAN OR BEAR

 


WEDNESDAY, MAY 22, 2024 - MAN OR BEAR?






Recently, a viral video asked women if they would rather be alone in the woods with a bear or a man has sparked a debate about women's safety. Comments have been coming in from all over the world. "I know a bear's intention. I don't know a man's intentions.” According to online responses, most women would choose to be with a bear. Some reasons women say they would prefer a bear include:

  • Bears will only kill you, not rape you

  • Bears will often leave when told to

  • Bears always see you as a human

  • People will believe you if you say a bear attacked you 

Bear attacks are rare, and most are only interested in protecting their food, cubs, or space. Bears are generally uninterested in humans and retreat once they recognize a human. However, bears may attack humans for several reasons, including Surprise, Hunger, protecting their young, Protecting a kill, and Predation

Statistics say there are about 433,000 rapes annually in the United States.  

Since 1784, wild black bears have had 66 fatal human/bear conflicts. Less than a dozen non-fatal conflicts happen yearly, and most encounters end with zero bodily contact. Why? Because black bears are far more likely to run away from you than engage 

Offensive attacks are sporadic and include all of the killings by black bears. These are generally unprovoked predatory attacks in remote areas where bears have the slightest contact with people. Bears that visit campgrounds, bird feeders, and garbage cans rarely kill people, even though these bears have the most contact with people. The 750,000 black bears in North America kill less than one person per year on average, while men ages 18-24 are 167 times more likely to kill someone than a black bear.

Following viewing etiquette is the first step to avoiding an encounter with a bear that could escalate into an attack. Keeping your distance and not surprising bears are some of the most important things you can do. Most bears will avoid humans if they hear them coming. Pay attention to your surroundings and make a special effort to be noticeable in an area with known bear activity or a good food source, such as berry bushes.


Once a bear has noticed you and is paying attention to you, additional strategies can help prevent the situation from escalating. Here are some general tips. However, please check recommendations for each park you visit: recommendations vary from park to park based on local bear behavior.


  • Identify yourself by talking calmly so the bear knows you are a human and not a prey animal. Remain still; stand your ground, but slowly wave your arms. Help the bear recognize you as a human. It may come closer or stand on its hind legs for a better look or smell. A standing bear is usually curious, not threatening.

  • Stay calm and remember that most bears do not want to attack you; they usually just want to be left alone. Bears may bluff out of an encounter by charging and turning away at the last second. Bears may also react defensively by woofing, yawning, salivating, growling, snapping their jaws, and laying their ears back. Continue to talk to the bear in low tones; this will help you stay calmer and won't be threatening to the bear. A scream or sudden movement may trigger an attack. Never imitate bear sounds or make a high-pitched squeal.

  • Pick up small children immediately. Do not make loud noises or screams—the bear may think it’s the sound of a prey animal. Slowly wave your arms above your head and tell the bear to back off. Do NOT run or make any sudden movements. Do not make loud noises or screams—the bear may think it’s the sound of a prey animal.

  • Hike and travel in groups. Groups of people are usually noisier and smellier than a single person. Therefore, bears often become aware of groups of people at greater distances, and because of their cumulative size, groups are also intimidating to bears.

  • Make yourselves look as large as possible (for example, move to higher ground).

  • Do NOT allow the bear access to your food. Getting your food will only encourage the bear and worsen the problem for others.

  • Do NOT drop your pack, as it protects your back and prevents a bear from accessing your food.

  • If the bear is stationary, move away slowly and sideways. This allows you to keep an eye on the bear and avoid tripping, and moving sideways is also non-threatening to bears.

  • Do NOT run, but stop and hold your ground if the bear follows. Bears can run as fast as a racehorse, both uphill and down. Like dogs, they will chase fleeing animals.

  • Do NOT climb a tree. Both grizzlies and black bears can climb trees.

  • Leave the area or take a detour. If this is impossible, wait until the bear moves away. Always leave the bear an escape route.

  • Be especially cautious if you see a female with cubs. Never place yourself between a mother and her cubs or attempt to approach them. 

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Okay, at age 76, most (all?) men I know well are not interested in rapping a woman.   In my academic career, I sense that young men - 18 to 30 are much more interested in rape.  (I also suspect that alcohol and peer pressure might play a part.)

As for me, if I had to answer the question - man or bear?   I’d like to know more about the man.  Over fifty?  Probably safe.  If I am camping (as I will be doing in the next two weeks, a man might help me pitch my tent.  And a man will be much nicer to talk to around a campfire.  (Bears don’t speak English!!!).  Yes, I’d be scared of a bear sniffing around my tent.  I don’t know if the old wife's tale is accurate - but I might empty my bladder!! 

Last year, while camping at Big Bend National Park, a pack of coyotes (or so I guessed) came into the campground and howled. It was scary, but I was in my tent trying to sleep. They yipped and walked around, and I stayed put. Nature is their home.

But a man might want to force himself on there for a younger lady in her 20s or 30s - in a wilderness area backpacking.


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I know women who were raped.  It seems that men lose their civility and kindness if they are alone with a beautiful woman.  (The concept of “I am God’s Gift to woman”!!!)


LOVE WINS

LOVE TRANSFORMS

BE CAREFUL AMONG MEN AND BEARS!!!


Karen Anne White, May 22, 20243