Sunday, February 28, 2021

MONDAY, MARCH 1ST, 2021 - Media and Entertainment

MONDAY, MARCH 1ST, 2021 - Media and Entertainment



The first day of March.  In your area is March coming in a lion or as a lamb?

This week I’m writing about MEDIA and ENTERTAINMENT.

Growing up, “Media” -  (to me) meant KCRG, WMT, KWWL television (and later PBS), and then a few radio stations.  For radio, my parents listened to WMT - which was kind of a mix between news, weather, easy talk (not interviews, not with an agenda, mostly public service kind of interviews), and maybe a song or too an hour - and then what might be called ‘easy listening’. And, likewise, it seemed as if we watched WMT news.  

I find it interesting that call letters were frequently acronyms - WMT was “Waterloo Morning Tribune” (although it was in Cedar Rapids, not Waterloo); and KCRG was named from the Cedar Rapids Gazette.  

These stations had media “personalities” - Tate Cummings was the long-time sports announcer with Ron Gonwer.  On the Friday night scoreboard, if the Boscobel Wisconsin high school football team won (which wasn’t in our television coverage), Tate would say “And, they are dancing in the streets in Boscobel tonight (and give the score). Bob Bruner did the news (and my father had a resemblance to him as both were bald - with the semi-circular fringe).  WMT radio did a 15-minute lunch program with Dean Lanfair - and - since it was half-a-block from my parent’s candy shop - I frequented and sat in the audience.

WMT had a Christmas program series in December, where local schools came to the studio to record a mini-Christmas concert.  My high school choir (Cedar Rapids Jefferson) was on every year.  (And, most of the local school choirs).  And - they got viewers!!

My sister is three years older - and thus got into music media.  She listened to Pat Boone, Tab Hunter, Paul Anka, Fabian, and the singers of the 1950s.  I’m not sure what radio station she listened to - but she got into the Beatles long before I did.  

We also read the Cedar Rapids Gazette newspaper- and I was a Gazette carrier.  It was an evening paper at that time - and kids like me could deliver the paper after school.  I was even the newspaper carrier of the week once!!  YEEHAW!!!  

Then every week I had to collect for the paper.  45 cents for the week, or $1.80 for four weeks.  Most of my customers were good but I remember one who never seemed ready to pay.  I walked on my route although some rode bikes.  I think my occasional numbness on my fingers and toes in super cold weather goes back to those days delivering papers!!!  And, I saved my money.  My sister will tell you I still have my first nickel!!  And, between my summer jobs and my newspaper money, I pretty much paid for my college education!!!

One memory that has been in my mind for years was local television advertising.  It seemed like a furniture (or other) store would have a President’s Day sale.  The TV ad would say the sale ended on a particular day.  And, then low-and-behold, the sale was extended.  WOW - somebody at that store must have decided that the sale was good and called the TV station to say “We’re going to extend that sale” (or, conversely, they didn’t sell all the stuff they wanted to sell, so extended the sale”.  

I guess I was naive and was amazed how they had the new ads are already written and ready to go - just when the sale was to end.  (Not understanding merchandising - that, of course, they knew they were going to extend the sale).

In a similar vein, the college bookstore always had a BIG sale in February.  BIG was an acronym for “Boss Is Gone” - so while the boss went to a college bookstore meeting, the employees would run the bookstore - and since the boss was gone, there would be bargains galore!!!  (Didn’t the boss approve the sales in advance?)

Along the line, I learned that ratings were important.  I don’t remember my parents ever getting a Nielsen rating letter (I have had a few) - but those ratings and viewership made a difference in advertising.  If (say) WMTs evening news got a 40 share and KCRGs evening news got a 10 share, WMT could (and would) charge more for advertisers to promote their products and services.  

Maybe I’ve become jaded over the years.  How many commercials have I seen?  Yes, everything has a cost - and television and newspapers have expenses.  Advertisers pay to get their spot in front of viewers - and the bigger (or more appropriate the audience), the better.

I play some games on my iPhone.  One game takes about 10 seconds per level - and then it is followed by a 30-second advertisement - BOO!!!  (I frequently close the game and come back in a few seconds later).  In that case, yes, I am “paying” for entertainment by being exposed to ads.  In that case, the end (30-second ads) doesn’t justify the mean (10-second game).  

So, paying for entertainment - let’s see.

For example, Joe Buck, who announces for NFL football on Fox and also does MLB baseball games makes approximately 6 million dollars a year. Others get paid more, and many others get paid less.  So, who pays Joe Buck’s salary?  Well, Fox Sports probably writes the check (or the direct deposit), but how does Fox Sports make its money?  Through advertising.  And, who advertises NFL football games?  Products that appeal to football sports fans - beer, trucks (and cars), and a variety of other companies.  I can’t remember a Hobby Lobby or Michael’s Craft ad on NFL football - but that is logical - most NFL fans don’t do sewing or crafts.

Even in the local market, ratings and money make a difference. (Even KHGI - Kearney, Hastings, and Grand Island Nebraska!!)  FOLLOW THE MONEY!!

More in the next few days.

LOVE WINS!!

HUGS!!

Karen

Saturday, February 27, 2021

SUNDAY FUNDAY - FEBRUARY 28, 2021

 SUNDAY FUNDAY - FEBRUARY 28, 2021

THE LAST DAY OF FEBRUARY - TWO MONTHS DOWN




MARCH THOUGHTS


The majority of my life has been spent in the “north” - born in Iowa, college in Minnesota, high school teaching in Wisconsin, and Iowa, doctorate degree in Nebraska, teaching eighteen years in South Dakota, then another thirteen in Connecticut.  


March was the transition time - between Winter and Spring.  There is the old saying “March comes in like a lion and leaves like a lamb”, or “March comes in like a lamb and leaves like a lion”.  (There were years, I think both the start and end of March were like lions!!!)  


While it might not be true, it seems that March had the highest snowfall - but it generally melted quickly.  My farmer friends told me that snow was a better form of moisture as it slowly melted into the soil.  (LMG is that true?)


That transition can stir up some rough weather. An average of 80 tornadoes occurs each March, based on the last 20 years. This is about double the typical tornado counts observed in February or January. March is the fifth most tornadic month. 


To me, tornado season starts in Oklahoma and works north - Kansas gets hit just a little later - late March or April or May.  Nebraska and South Dakota get June tornadoes.  


SOME MARCH QUOTES:


“It was one of those March days when the sun shines hot and the wind blows cold: when it is summer in the light, and winter in the shade.”


“March, when days are getting long, Let thy growing hours be strong to set right some wintry wrong.”


“March is the month God created to show people who don't drink what a hangover is like.”


***


In high school choir, we sang a version of Edward Grieg's “Last Spring”.  I picture Grieg in his native Norway standing at a large picture window watching the snow and waiting for winter to be over.  


(These may not be quite the words, but close the original are in Norwegian).  Here’s a version with a trumpet player: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nkpl3ShcTiQ 

“Yet once again I could see winter leave, And springtime advancing. Buds soon appeared on hedge and tree, And flowers were dancing. 


Green was the grass and the flowers now shown forth, in brilliant array. Once more I hear the joyous song of spring, And of summer.


Life in its beauty once again I see, But must from it sever; Sad then of heart I wonder if this be The last spring forever.


I picture an elderly Grieg wondering if this might be his “last spring”.  (I would like this tune at my funeral!!!)

 

After those long winters in the north, spring WAS coming - SPRING - with new life, new birth, new hopes.  The green colors of spring were dazzling - with almost every hue of green (my box of 72 colored pencils doesn’t quite have enough shades of green).  




I did a lookup on shades of green and got these:

Apple Green

Aquamarine

Asparagus

Avocado

Bright Green

Chartreuse 

Cyan

Dark Green

Dark Moss Green

Dark Spring Green

Dartmouth Green

Emerald Green

Fern Green

Forest Green

Green

Yellow Green

Hunter Green

Jade

Kelly Green

Lawn Green

Light Green

Lime

Mint

Moss Green

Neon Green

Nile Green

Olive

Pine Green 

Pistacho

Sea Green

Shamrock Green

Spring Green

Teal

Yellow Green

(and others)


If you have ever painted a wall “green”, you took paint samples home to see what tone would be best.  (and, of course, it seems like every paint company has a slightly different name to their greens!!!)


*****

Of course, on April 1st, after 31 days of March and as an old marching band member, I was tired!!!  (joke)


We’ll have more March thoughts and expectations next week!!!


*****


STORY

March came hard for the Guthrie Family.  It was hard to know way back nine-and-one-half months ago how the weather would be for the calving season.  The first two days brought north winds and a couple of inches of snow.  That followed by three days of southern breezes, sunshine, and warmth.  There didn’t seem to be any middle ground as the thermometer jumped like a spooked jackrabbit.  


The first calf was a healthy male calf to the old cow Dorothy.  As they say, this wasn’t Dorothy’s first rodeo   Dorothy calmly “did her thing” on time and even on a nice enough day (and not at night).


Peggy dropped her female calf on a warm afternoon - that was Emily’s project for 4H.  Susie delivered her second calf that Emily had already named Elsa.


The other cows at Guthrie’s farm delivered - most pretty much on time.  They were generally holsteins - the famous black-and-white dairy cattle - and probably the most prevalent in Southwest Wisconsin.


Agnes was the only cow who hadn’t delivered yet.  Dad (Bernie) was watching the signs for Agnes - but it didn’t seem imminent.  A quick-moving winter storm came through on Wednesday night.  On Thursday morning, the school was called off - and of course, about 2 a.m. Agnes started to dance and prance her birthing routine.  Dad got Josh and they went off to the barn.  The ice was slick and Josh fell twice with the wind gusts and darkness.  Finally in the barn, they huddled next to Agnes’ stall.  The birth seemed hard for Agnes and lasted about two hours (about an hour longer than Peggy’s delivery).  This cow was to be little Josh’s first calf for 4H. 


But, then the magic of being on a farm, in a freezing cold barn with your Dad, and your first-ever calf disappeared in the bitter cold of this March night. Agnes’s calf was stillborn.  Josh tried to be good about it, but the tears from expecting to raise your very own calf to not having a calf hit him - and hit him hard.  He had been looking forward to raising his own calf.


Mom (Ruth) and Dad tried to comfort him and even big sister Emily (at age 10) tried to help. Mom made a big breakfast of waffles (swimming in maple syrup), with bacon - and that helped a little.  But, for the next months, when Emily went with Dad to the barn to see Elsa, that lump in Josh’s throat grabbed him and threw him in a corner like a limp rag.


In early May, the family dog, Rosie, had a litter - and Dad and Mom knew that Josh would get a puppy out of the litter.  Dad and Mom took Josh to the pen on the side of the barn where Rosie had her pups - four little balls that looked too small to be border collies - barely large enough to be even kittens.  


Dad pulled Josh up and asked, “Which want do you want, Josh?”


Josh pointed at the smallest one - the “runt” of the litter. In a few days, when Rosie allowed Josh to pick up this ball of fur, Josh called him Moses.  Dad wasn’t quite sure that “Moses” was a good name for a dog, but Josh was adamant.  (Moses had led his people to the promised land, maybe Moses could help Josh heal)


*****

From that time on, it seemed as if Josh and Moses were inseparable.  Generally, Mom didn’t allow the farm dogs into the house, but somehow this runt of a border collie even melted Mom’s heart enough to let Moses be with Josh.  They slept together and romped around together.  That summer the two of them roamed the hills and the valleys of their farm.  At dinner time, Mom had to call and ring the old farm bell for Josh and Moses to come running - generally dirty and maybe wet - but always with a grin.  


Mom generally admonished “Josh, take a shower and clean up for dinner.”  The mudroom had a shower - and the two of them ran the water over them and reveled in the hot water.  And, of course, as a violation of Mom’s rules, Moses sat at Josh’s feet and Josh would pet him and drop him morsels of food.  And, when supper was over the two of them ran right out of the kitchen and back into some special place the two of them knew.  


*****

Fall came - and school at River Ridge started again.  The first week Mrs. Hanson - Josh’s teacher tried to get Josh to focus on his work -but Josh had a black-and-white dog running through his brain.  It would take a while to get back to learning mode.  And, at home, when the school bus with Emily and Josh came up the lane, Moses and Josh shared some tearful moments.  


Of course, the tears changed when the bus returned in the evening - and Moses leaped into Josh’s arms.  


But, Moses was growing too.  That border collie nature within him grew within him.  In the afternoon, he seemed compelled to help bring the cows to the barn for milking.  Josh would try to keep up - and it seemed as if Moses was trying to round Josh up too.


On Saturdays Josh combed Moses - and Moses mostly stood still for the combing.  His fur was always matted with cockleburrs and mud, and Josh also learned patience in loving his dog.  And, as happened in the Wisconsin woods, Josh picked out ticks from both Moses and himself. Boy and dog - it just didn’t get much better than this.


*****

And, boy and dog grew up together - each with their skills - be it a top student or a top border collie.  


And, next year, when Agnes delivered a fine female calf, the three - dog, calf, and boy romped through the pasture!


When Josh was old enough, Dad allowed him to drive the four-wheel Gator around the property.  Josh would chase Moses on the four-wheeler and Moses would chase Josh.  And Josh would let Moses ride “shotgun” with him.  


One cloudy October Saturday, Moses arrived at the back door and was barking his head off.  Mom was working on some projects and wondered what was up with Moses.  This wasn’t like him to be alone and to be barking.  He circled around the door - inviting Mom to come after him.  She grabbed the other Gator and followed Moses.  Down one of the steep ravines she saw it - the other Gator flipped over and Josh unconscious under it.  With somehow superhuman strength, she righted the Gator and grabbed Josh.  He had a gash in his left arm and had lost some blood but he had a pulse and was breathing normally.  She called Dad with the news.  He was on the only real level ground harvesting corn but came quickly to the scene.  Together they got the unconscious Josh onto the bigger Gator and got to the Markley Hollow Road. Mom had taken the second Gator and got the family car and soon was at the same spot.  Dad and Mom loaded Josh - and Moses - who demanded to be in the car with Josh to the Crossing Rivers Hospital Emergency room.  Two emergency room workers gently put Josh on a gurney and wheeled him in - with Moses at their heels.  (But, they wouldn’t let Moses part their doors).


Mom and Dad alternated - one in the waiting room and one staying with Moses outside.  But, the strangest thing happened - about our hour with furious barking and perpetual motion, all of a sudden, Moses climbed back into the Gator and laid down.  Dad was with the dog at that time. He was about to give his wife a call when his cell beeped with a call from her.


“Hello,” Bernie Guthrie answered.


“Bernie, Josh just woke up.  They have bandaged his wounds and he is groggy but alert and happy.  I’m with him.”


Bernie said, “Put the phone on speaker.” Ruth did so.


Bernie then said “I love you son” - but as he was talking Moses barked a happy bark too.” 


During the few days of recovery, Josh begged so hard, they let Moses be at his bedside (other than when Bernie Guthrie took Moses outside).


And, Moses won the hospital staff over to having a dog in the room.  He didn’t bark but did growl when a nurse had to give Josh a shot.


Boy and Dog; Dog and Boy!! A beautiful relationship.  

*****

End of today’s story


Animals play a big part in our lives  It seems as if most of my friends have a dog or cat (or multiple pets).  My sister (BF) has Coco; my Houston niece has Foxy, my Phoenix niece has Alpie; my son and family have Deli, KW has Jack - a beautiful white cat; BN has Mollie; MN has Kiki (dog) and Fritz (cat); RP has Lily and Gabe (two cats), TG has a dog as does AG, KF has a cat.  


My family didn’t have pets growing up - so I really haven’t been a pet owner (and, the ‘reality’ - owned by a pet!!).  I’ve thought with my schedule and my life it wouldn’t be fair to them.


And, that relationship between boy and dog can be likened to our relationship to our spouses, and maybe to our relationship to God.

*****

WRAP-UP!!!


I will be planting some green bean seeds in the next few days.  I don’t have a real garden - just a couple of containers on my apartment patio.  I do have two marble-sized tomatoes on my tomato plants from last fall.  I brought them in and they kept growing.  


I’m still glad I don’t have a television.  I (somewhat unfortunately watched television last week when I spent three days with friends (who had electricity, heat, and water).  I’m finding that “ignorance is bliss” in the political arena.  Love one another, if you can be anything - be nice; love your neighbor as yourself, forgive, forgive, forgive.  


I miss you all - and I am happy that we are moving ahead with vaccinations - maybe - YES - maybe normality (whatever that is) can return!!!


LOVE WINS!!!


Karen


Friday, February 26, 2021

SATURDAY STORY - FEBRUARY 27, 2021

 SATURDAY STORY - FEBRUARY 27, 2021




A work of fiction:

*****

Micah Pakowski was an above-average student at East View High School in Georgetown Texas.  Everybody LOVED Micah!! A bit on the tall side, about 6 feet 3 inches, brown hair and eyes, outgoing, and popular.  He played some basketball but wasn’t a starter.  But, he was definitely a team player.  He was a sparkplug in practice and on the bench cheering the team.  He was shy around the girls (and blushed way-too-easily).  (A few of the girls liked to tease Micah as they would come up and hug him - or say something to him, just to see him blush as red as a beet!!!)


In the Patriot Band, he was the first chair tenor saxophone player.  In the Patriot Jazz Band, when he got tenor sax solos, the girls in the audience swooned as he tickled their ears.


His grades were okay - not the top of the class, but in the upper 20%.  


He dated some - Kristy McLennon was kind of “his” girl, but they didn’t have any arrangements.  


He was the third (and last) child of Joe and Andrea Miller.  When one looked at Micah, they just ‘knew’  he was going to be something - the complete package.  A big kid, with a big heart, a big smile, gracious, funny, smart, athletic, musical, and (if you can believe it), humble.


He knew he wasn’t the captain of the football team (or basketball team), he wasn’t going to be the valedictorian, he might just make the scholastic honor society, but none-the-less, Micah Pakowski was a really likable guy!!!


From his youth, Micah knew he was going to college.  His dad, the manager of the McCoy building supply said “UT” means the University of Texas.  During the fall season, his dad wore burnt orange and UT gear.  Micah watched UT football games as if it was a religious service.  Dad generally had to work Saturdays, but at work, there was a TV with the game.  If they were lucky, Micah, his Dad (Jerry), and his older brother (Matt) would get tickets to a game.  They would sit in Darrell K. Royal stadium - probably in the nosebleed seats towards the top - and in the sun cheering the Longhorns to victory.  Like his dad, Micah learned to love burnt-orange and say “Hook ‘Em”!!


Matt was a better student than Micah, and seven years older had gone to the University of Texas and majored in Information Systems and had a great career with Deloitte as a Systems Analyst. His older sister, Beth was five years older and she had gone to the big rival, Texas A&M.  She was tentatively planning a medical career and A&M had strong health career majors.  Beth finished her four-year health science major and was starting in a  Veterinarian degree program.

 



Micah had applied to the University of Texas - but hadn’t made the cut as being in the top 20% of his class just wasn’t high enough.  He did get a strong SAT score that could have put him in, but he was happy just to go to the local community college.  


Since Micah was fifteen, he had worked summers and then some weekends at McCoy building materials.  He was strong, and with his boyish good looks, and his outgoing, friendly personality, he was well-liked and did a good job.  After his senior year of East View High School, he worked for Meyer’s Construction working on concrete jobs.  During the summers. Micah’s day might start at 6:30 as the cement mixers started rolling.  He helped build the forms for the thousands of houses being built in Williamson County.  He slipped on his wader boots and grabbed a long pole trowel to smooth the cement as it came out of the chute.  By 6:30 p.m. it was quitting time.  He made excellent money - which was going to his college funds.  


Micah was smart with his money.  Working construction, he wanted a pick-up truck but didn’t want to go into debt for a new one.  Shopping around, he found a ‘gently used’ ten-year-old truck that was a good price.  It was owned by an older friend of his dad who always had pickup trucks but now in his 70s didn’t need that big vehicle anymore and had gotten a little foreign car for the gas mileage.  He paid cash for the truck.  It didn’t get good gas mileage, but he was going from home to construction sites for some long days, so that was okay.


As summer moved along, Micah thought about his college classes.  If he was going to transfer to UT someday, he would need some general education classes.  On a rainy morning, when they weren’t going to pour cement, Micah went to Austin Community College in Round Rock and talked with a counselor.  He was trying to see if he could get his Freshman Composition, College Algebra, Introduction to Business, and Introduction to Information Technology in the mornings - and then he could still work in the afternoons with Meyer’s Construction.  Working with an advisor, he got Freshman Comp on Tuesday and Thursdays from 8:00 to 9:15; and Intro to Business also on Tuesdays and Thursdays from 9:30 to 10:45; and Algebra and IT on Monday, Wednesday and Friday from 8:00 to 8:50 for Algebra and 9:00 to 9:50 for IT.  He could do his homework in the evenings (although he was generally bushed by then.)


*****

So, the fall semester started, and Micah worked close to 40 hours a week (with working Saturdays).  And, he did make all classes.  He was glad when sunset started to come earlier for doing his homework.  He was in bed by 8:30 most nights.  He was glad he was a good student.  He was also glad for the occasional rainy day when they didn’t pour concrete and he could catch up on his sleep and his homework.  Sundays were spent with church with his parents and homework in the afternoon.  He thought ‘hey, what else would a 19-year guy be doing with his life.


And, amazing enough, he got all A’s in his classes - and got a promotion at work.  An additional benefit was that Micah got very proficient in spoken Spanish as many of the crew were Spanish speakers.   


The spring semester was the same - almost full-time work, four college classes, and all A grades.  Then came the hot Texas summer - no classes - but 6:30 to 6:30 work.  He was doing more supervisory jobs - directing the cement trucks and where to put the chute, where the cement spreaders were to smooth the poured mixture.  


Then a second year with Austin Community College 


As the second summer ended, Micah had some decisions to make.  He had 48 college credits (and all A grades), and he could transfer into the University of Texas - but that wouldn't work well with his work. 


Micah called his grandfather, Jesse, who he really appreciated his candor and insights.  On a Sunday in August Micah met with his grandpa.  


Jesse and Micah talked for a long time before 


"Okay" started Micah.  "I'm torn between quitting my job and going to college and getting my degree, or not going to college and just working."


They talked about the issue back and forth - the future seemed to be based on Micah getting a college degree.  


Jesse reminded Micah that his dad, Jerry, had a college degree and had worked up into management at McCoy's Building Supplies.  "A degree can open doors for you - more doors for more management, more money, and less physical labor - such as smoothing cement.  


*****

Micah did go to the University of Texas that fall with a double major - business and management and engineering and construction.  His grandfather suggested that Micah should live in a dorm or an apartment (Micah selected the dorm, he wouldn’t have to cook).  During the summer and longer breaks, he still worked with the concrete crew on Meyer’s Construction.  


John Meyer watched Micah work - and encouraged Micah.  


One Saturday at the end of a hard week, the concrete crew went to a bar. Micah hadn’t ever drunk much alcohol.  He thought he would experiment that night.  He guessed it must have been a hit - but not for Micah - as he vomited even as far as dry heaves.  Not a good option.  


On Monday some of the guys tried to tease Micah.  He ignored them and kept working.  They didn’t invite him to go to the bar after that.


*****

Kristy McLennon had gone to Stanford for her college experience.  After her junior year (and Micah’s junior year), Micah had seen her across the church from his family one Sunday.  They hit it off and dated a few times that summer.  But, back at UT for his senior year, and Kristy’s senior year at Stanford, she had been swept off her feet by a man at Stanford.  There were some girls in Micah’s business classes, but very few in the engineering management classes. He was still shy.  Jasmine Johnson, a black engineering management major, tried to befriend Micah and they shared coffee and studied together, but like the other dating he had done, it just wasn't to be”.  


After graduation, Micah went back to work with Meyer’s Construction - but now as a junior manager.  He worked on and got a certification in project management.  Soon, John Meyer was letting Micah do the estimations on jobs - and Micah was generally closer than John had been.


One small job, Micah estimated too low, and of course, Meyer’s Construction got the bid.  Soon, afterward, when he had realized his mistake in the estimation, Micah approached John with the news.  Micah volunteered to take the extra costs out of his salary.  It was a great learning experience for Micah, although it cost him some money and ego.  


John Meyer’s realized that Micah was good - and probably could work for a regional firm.  He passed the word on to three of the larger companies in the area, and Micah settled for engineering - which had a focus on medical engineering.  John Quinto made Micah a great offer and he started as a junior manager and project estimation expert.  Within a year, he had become one of the two main managers on the Seton Healthcare facility in Waco.  He was a hands-on manager - and quickly earned the respect of his crew.  (And, Micah a few times got down in the trenches and spread concrete).


But, there was still something missing in Micah’s life.  By his age (29) most men had married and had families - but not Micah.  He wasn’t gay, he loved his job and his work, but there was a very tiny spot in his heart for more.  


By now, his grandpa Jesse was older and in an assisted living facility with his wife Beth (short for Elizabeth).  Micah spent Labor Day weekend with his grandpa and discussed many things - but they still couldn’t quite put their joint brains on what was in Micah’s head.  


*****

It was both a scary and very realistic dream that Micah ever had.  


The next morning, grandpa Jesse called Micah and said he had the weirdest dream - and could Micah come to visit on Sunday.


Micah arrived on Saturday night and slept on a futon in his grandparent's apartment in the Golden Generation assisted living facility.  Jesse said, “Micah, after church tomorrow, you and I are going to talk”.  That sounded both exciting and ominous to Micah.


Over coffee, that soon got cold as the two were getting deeper and the coffee just sat.  


Jesse started “Micah, I had a dream last week that you were helping so many people.  There were some buildings and lots of love.”  Jesse stopped before going on too far.


Micah didn’t want to sound like he was crazy.  “Grandpa”, he said, “that seems to be similar to my dream.  I was speaking in Spanish and there was a building being built.  It could have been a hospital, but it seemed like a church.”


That excited Jesse “who blurted in.  YES - a church.”


That hit Micah hard - oh no - and oh yes.  It wasn’t a dream but a vision, a premonition, a calling.  


Micah spoke slowly “I might be called to be a priest”.


*****

End of story


While there were many callings at a minister or social worker, in this story, I wanted Micah to remain celibate - which might fit into a Catholic calling.  


For many of us, we started out in our jobs - and then something happened. In my class it was a subtle shift that was also a significant shift - to move from high school teaching to college teaching - hey they are both in teaching.  But, college teaching involved more - research, writing, getting involved in the academic field.  


Pollyanna Karen would want to add that Micah became an outstanding clergyman, worked well with Christian, Jewish, Muslim, and other backgrounds. He espoused that LOVE WINS. (But, of course, this is a story!!!)


And, LOVE DOES WIN


HUGS!!


Karen


Thursday, February 25, 2021

FRIDAY FEBRUAY 26, 2021 - LOVE WINS!!!

 FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 26, 2021 LOVE WINS!!




Have you ever screwed up - done something wrong?  


YES - I have.  (Sorry - no details).  No, I did not kill anybody, I didn’t cheat on my wife.  But, in the full sense of the word - I’m a sinner.


One liturgy that I am familiar with says “I have sinned through my thoughts, words, and deeds - both in what I have done - and what I haven’t done”.  Should I have been nicer to that person the other day (deed)?  Yes, I was thinking of “murder” for the jerk of a driver that almost forced me off the road (thoughts).  Did I say something I shouldn’t have (words)?


Were there things I should have done?  Yes, only a million!!  I have a friend and I should call her - but I don’t like to call people.  There are homeless people - I should have done something for them.  I should have visited OR when he had COVID.  I should have done more with my money and those that need financial help.


There have been those who thought they were above the law.  I’m looking at Psalm 51 today.  King David - the grown-up boy who used his slingshot and killed Goliath the giant.  He’s king - and sees a beautiful woman sunbathing on a neighboring roof.  (Aside, men are very visual - and seeing a woman (I’m not sure if she was naked or not) sunbathing would have excited most men).  


And, David got caught (at least in the Spirit).  In Psalm 51 he writes:

Have mercy on me, O God, according to your steadfast love; according to your abundant mercy blot out my transgressions.


Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin. For I know my transgressions, and my sin is ever before me. Against you, you alone, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight so that you are justified in your sentence and blameless when you pass judgment.


Create in me a clean heart, O God, and put a new and right spirit within me. Do not cast me away from your presence, and do not take your holy spirit from me.  Restore to me the joy of your salvation, and sustain in me a willing spirit.


Socrates wrote, “An unexamined life is not worth living.”


We really need to take time to reflect on our lives.  


Here are a few more quotes on self-examination

Let us test and examine our ways, and return to the Lord!

I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think

Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts! And see if there be any grievous way in me

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Yes, I screw up - and do stupid things - or I don’t do things that I should do!!!  We say something mean and don’t mean it.  We think of some nasty thoughts.  I’m learning NOT to judge - unless I’ve walked a mile in the other person’s shoes.  Neither the last President nor the new President, nor governors, etc. - because I really don’t know them to judge them - and even if I knew them, I have to forgive them.


Forgiving (to me at least), means forgiving myself for things I have done or failed to do - in thoughts words, or deeds.


I am to love my neighbor as myself - and, thus I have to forgive myself for my mistakes - as well as ask God as I view Him/Her/It/The Force for forgiveness.  


But, once I have forgiven myself, then I can work on forgiving and LOVING my neighbor(s).  


Love never fails, Love Never Ends!!  (And, I have to continue to learn that - daily!!!  (And, acknowledge that I can mess up!!!)


Yes, my friends - LOVE WINS!!!


HUGS!!


Karen




Wednesday, February 24, 2021

Thursday, February 25, 2021 - Fasting Continued

 THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 25, 2021 - FASTING CONTINUED




Yesterday I did a first look at intermittent fasting.  Today I want to take that further as well as look at some of the spiritual benefits of fasting.


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FIRST - SOME OF THE HEALTH BENEFITS:


According to Healthline.com, “Fasting has been shown to have many health benefits, from increased weight loss to better brain function.

Here are 8 health benefits of fasting — backed by science.”


1. Promotes Blood Sugar Control by Reducing Insulin Resistance

2. Promotes Better Health by Fighting Inflammation

3. May Enhance Heart Health by Improving Blood Pressure, Triglycerides, and Cholesterol Levels

4. May Boost Brain Function and Prevent Neurodegenerative Disorders

5. Aids Weight Loss by Limiting Calorie Intake and Boosting Metabolism

6. Increases Growth Hormone Secretion, Which Is Vital for Growth, Metabolism, Weight Loss and Muscle Strength

7. Could Delay Aging and Extend Longevity

8. May Aid in Cancer Prevention and Increase the Effectiveness of Chemotherapy


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SPIRITUAL BENEFITS


I have my spiritual beliefs - and that does have some fasting as a good spiritual exercise.


In a large Christian denomination, during the Lenten season leading up to Easter - and expects fasting on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday.  That same denomination also expects its followers to abstain from meat on Fridays in Lent.  (The fasts generally mean one larger meal, and two smaller meals)


Muslims fast during Ramadan - no food during the day. Ramadan varies year to year, and in 2021, it is from April 23rd to May 23rd.


Jews fast for 25 hours for Yom Kippur. In 2021, Yom Kippur starts at sunset on Wednesday, September 15, until sunset on Thursday, September 16.  Yom Kippur means “Day of Atonement.” Simply put, fasting is a vehicle for reflecting and repenting for your sins.   A source says “all forms of sustenance are prohibited, including water.


Other religions fast as well. 








I looked at this source for ideas about spiritual fasting - This is a Christian source. https://bloggersforthekingdom.com/7-spiritual-benefits-of-fasting/ - but those of other faith traditions can learn from it.


.1. SPIRITUAL FASTING CAUSES US TO RELY ON GOD

Fasting shows God that our hunger for Him surpassed our hunger for anything else.


.2. SPIRITUAL FASTING HELPS US BE FILLED WITH THE FRUITS OF THE SPIRIT

When we fast, we can become irritable and negative.  When we feel irritable, we can grow our capacity under stress and choose to show goodness, gentleness, and self-control instead.


.3. SPIRITUAL FASTING OPENS OUR HEART TO HEARING GOD’S VOICE

When we fast, there is almost nothing distracting us from hearing God’s voice. 


.4. SPIRITUAL FASTING RENEWS OUR APPRECIATION FOR GOD AND HIS BLESSINGS

When we fast, we force our hearts to turn to God and our appreciation for God’s presence in our lives will grow.


.5. SPIRITUAL FASTING GIVES POWER TO OUR PRAYERS

When driving out a demon, Jesus said “But this kind does not come out except by prayer and fasting?


.6. SPIRITUAL FASTING CREATES AN ENVIRONMENT FOR MIRACLES

Fasting forces the flesh to go under the authority of God’s Spirit in us. 


.7. SPIRITUAL FASTING HELPS US TO CONSUME GOD’S WORD

When we fast food from our bodies, we open the way for our spirit to consume God’s Word like never before.


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There you are - two days on FASTING.


I am finding the dieting aspect of fasting interesting - from the Alzheimer’s and Parkinson’s aspects - and the related health aspects.


The spiritual aspects I have done in the past and the benefits have been good.


And, let me add some spiritual references from Matthew 6

“When you pray, don’t be like the hypocrites who love to pray publicly on street corners and in the synagogues where everyone can see them. I tell you the truth, that is all the reward they will ever get. But when you pray, go away by yourself, shut the door behind you, and pray to your Father in private. Then your Father, who sees everything, will reward you.


“And when you fast, don’t make it obvious, as the hypocrites do, for they try to look miserable and disheveled so people will admire them for their fasting. I tell you the truth, that is the only reward they will ever get. But when you fast, comb your hair and wash your face.  Then no one will notice that you are fasting, except your Father, who knows what you do in private. And your Father, who sees everything, will reward you.


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So, don’t ask me if I’m fasting - (as these suggest that I should fast in private) - and comb my hair and look natural!!! 


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So, if you fast - (for spiritual reasons), don’t tell me.  I guess if you are fasting for dieting, then you can tell!!!


LOVE WINS!!!


HUGS!!


Karen